How many of your male partners have actually been any good in bed? been

[1980sfookup]

Just on the back of something I read on another thread, looking back over my "career" I'm late 50s now but have had three serious relationships including one marriage. Have had eight other sexual partners between (my) ages of 15 to 54 (not had sex for four years - single now) but thinking back can't think of any one of these guys that were outstanding in bed. Have I just missed out and there are some real super stars out there or is it just the way it is? Saying that tho I had a brief fling with someone who was very eager to please but I didn't really fancy him - he was a rebound/revenge fuck which days more about me than him sadly. Anyway - can anyone attest that there are men out there that still prioritise a woman's enjoyment in the bedroom ... Or wherever

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Have reported this sexist and racist. they have taken it very seriously. How dare you
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Just gone back and read @ToBeOrNotToBee posts - both of them , and not only are they not offensive, they are if interest and relative to this post.
Have you got the right thread?

First time I had good sex I thought , wow, so this is what it's all about.
Some people can be good at for play and bad at sex.
But maybe I'm shallow , but bad sex is an absolute deal breaker for me.

Been single all my life, dated lots. I've slept with about 35 to 40 men. Only 3 could produce the required result - 2 of them Scorpios.

Just sayin'.

None of them.
just in it for their own pleasure.

I'm not sure what the point of counting past, say, 10 is. There are some impressively accurate numbers on here. I'm afraid my count is so high it all blurs. But I definitely remember the good ones :)

Yeah there are some men who really love sex, adore it, think about it in a creative way, revel in it. And there are some men who really love having an orgasm. Sex with the latter group is deeply underwhelming.

One absolutely amazing (I think probably my soul mate), a very close second is DH. And someone who was in charge and 20yrs my senior was also earth shattering.
All others (there has been rather a few!) range from unforgettable to a load of shite!

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LOL 🤣. That made I laugh.

You have no right to be offfensive. So enjoy weeks of scrutiny. Good luck Idiot

Looks like Tobe's post has been deleted after reports from madcatman but then he's broken guidelines by calling them an idiot and that strange comment about scrutiny. Nice.

Why is a woman's orgasm the man's responsibility?! Can we conclude then that men who can't climax during sex (and there are loads) can legitimately blame the women they're having sex with?!

let me help you with the misunderstanding you have made. you have misinterpreted “doesn’t care about the woman’s pleasure/experience” with “wholly responsible for a woman’s orgasm”. Does that make it easier to understand the thread?

Can only describe it as being jackhammered by a slug

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Now theres an image 😆😆😆

Wish my husband was as open as yours!!

I feel like it was more to do with the chemistry between us that made it good.
I've had quite a wild life and really enjoyed having different partners (around 100) 3 I'd say were truly memorable.