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Does anyone still French kiss?

102 replies

Floogal · 05/12/2022 14:09

I'm 42 and we've been married 10 years. We only really French kiss during foreplay or sex. Used to do it more when we were younger. Does anyone still Frenchy? Is there an upper age limit.?

OP posts:
harly5 · 05/12/2022 14:11

I'm 29, married for 2 years, together for 13. I would say It's been a fair few years since we french kissed for the sake of a snog Grin

Spaceprincess · 05/12/2022 17:16

I'm 51 and still snog dp but we've only been together 2 years.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 05/12/2022 17:18

I'd find it odd not to tbh.

BedTaker · 05/12/2022 17:20

No, we only do it when we are going to shag. Can't imagine doing it any other time these days! 😂

TangledWebofMincemeatDeception · 05/12/2022 17:21

Oh definitely! It’s important for keeping attraction alive and also for creating intimacy. Been together almost 15 years.

Berlinlover · 05/12/2022 17:21

My partner and I are 67 and 46 and French kiss every day. We’re together two years.

Minikievs · 05/12/2022 17:24

Oh I love a good frenchie! Do it as much as possible. We are only 18 months in though.

I'm not sure how to kiss without tongues to be honest though. It's a peck, or a snog. I find it really awkward to do an "in between" kiss. The tongue always slips in 😂

Piggleton · 05/12/2022 17:24

Both 43, married 10 years and only French kiss when we have sex. This post has reminded me I miss it, so off to find him for a good snog! (love that word lol)

Mylittlesandwich · 05/12/2022 17:26

Married 8 years and I get a (French) kiss goodnight every night.

Igglepiggleslittletoe · 05/12/2022 18:06

Yes absolutely love it. No need for foreplay for me when we french kiss either it works just as well ;)

gogohmm · 05/12/2022 18:21

Yes Grin

Greensleevevssnotnose · 05/12/2022 18:23

Ewwww gross 🤢 no never not since I was a teenager

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 05/12/2022 18:51

I believe the French do.

Sheedde · 05/12/2022 21:23

No

Phrenologistsfinger · 05/12/2022 21:27

Not since we dated, DP doesn’t like kissing at all 😭

Candyfloss99 · 05/12/2022 21:36

Yes every night and sometimes sneaky ones throughout the day.

Oopsiedaisyy · 05/12/2022 21:49

Late 40s, with DP for 6 months and i adore it

Tuvala · 05/12/2022 22:05

I really don’t like it! A good passionate kiss, yes, but the tongue being thrust in my mouth is a turn off - I know that’s upset previous partners.

TheChosenTwo · 05/12/2022 22:17

Only really before sex, dh finds it too sexy 😂

EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 05/12/2022 22:18

I would find it really strange to French kiss without the intention of it leading to sex.

Mind you, I think I might be an outlier because I often see women writing on these boards things like "haven't slept with this guy yet but we've kissed and groped" and I'm like... Why would you leave it there? To me it's like going into a restaurant, ordering a starter, eating and enjoying it, then saying "well I'm really hungry but I think I'll just pay the bill and leave now" 🤔

I'm not a touchy feely person in general. Hate holding hands, not keen on cuddling. Love sex though.

Yabado · 05/12/2022 22:30

Yes most days
we nearly always give each other a proper french kiss if one of us is going out of the house .
But we still love each other and have always been very affectionate as a couple
We still hold hands when out and about 😂and we have no problems with a PDA

Purplecatshopaholic · 05/12/2022 22:34

Ooh yes, we both love it!

HashBrownandBeans · 05/12/2022 23:12

Most days, yes

GrohlOnAPole · 05/12/2022 23:19

Nope, but I’ve never been a fan of French kissing anyway. We do kiss a lot but just not with tongues.

AnneLovesGilbert · 05/12/2022 23:21

Every day.