Dating Thread 236 - Swiping, Blocking and Video Calls

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Best of luck with Mr G. The mothership will be waiting for an update!

Mortifying is the word!😳

Hope you have a lovely date with MrG. Sounds like you are a fellow brinkman, too, with the lying in bed till the very last minute!

That’s a useful insight (if slightly worrying!). Thanks @Justatoe2
I will check out that insta page.

@Eeksteek it may not surprise people that my instinct would absolutely be to do what you are thinking, and send a message to Mr 2pugs. Sadly, it seems that my judgment is totally out when it comes to these things, however! I am sorry to hear that it hasn’t amounted to anything; it seemed so promising and I would find it difficult to give up on. Hope you are not feeling too dismal about it.

Now he's saying that he's looking forward to meeting me and having a drink or two. He's either testing me or I've jumped to conclusions that he just wants sex! Ha!

5thWisdom

good luck !
looks he’s just another human being who’s both horny and - and probanly looking for connection

hes just a MAN !!!!
and know your worth
and have a great evening 😉

Eeksteek

remind Me whats happedned with Pug?

I know he was a bit backwards on the physical ! But had he backed off
or just busy

Deffy, is Mr B the young hot guy? What’s the story with this one? Which one is your front runner now?

Enjoy Mr Nice …you love him and he loves you. You can decide to go a notch further with him but that would mean dropping MrM
I know how difficult these things are. Im full circle with MrEx after dating for 8 months! But I love him and he loves me so I feel I need to give it a second chance

Mila14

i wish you the best with Mr Ex second time around

you’ve really tried VERY hard to meet others (industrial level dating!!! ) and hes
clearly always been the front runner

and I think with boundaries in place ? And you know alot more about this than say in early 2022

No MrB is the hottie that's been silent since Friday night 🙄

Well, we met, he looked like his pictures which is always good but he was shorter than I thought but hey

We had two coffees and talked constantly and debated a bit too.

So, I said I have to go for the parking so he walked me to the car. I bit the bullet and said I'd like to see you again. He looked really pleased. We had a hug and then an almost kiss because I was going for his other cheek 😂

So, yes, first date with a much younger guy (10 years) and it was great. I think it'll be a slow burner but I really enjoyed it.

He messaged me to say that he'd meant to say how lovely I looked and what a good looking woman I am 😳😳 and, for the first time, I said thank you. Not oh no I'm not. It felt good. So yes.

Sounds wonderful @Definitelycross and well done for taking the compliment!

Thank you darling Worsy… my heart was never in it really. And i was still seeing MrEx for posh dinners and movies…and well…we DTD several times although we would refrain other on account of none of us wanting to be FWB…so we were “friends” but fancied the pants of each other and had all the kissing and heavy petting possible before getting naked and just DTD. Fact. So who were we kidding… it is early days so I'm not 100% in this though

@Definitelycross what a lovely first date! Wonderful news! And lovely follow up message afterwards! Did you fancy him? How big was the spork?!

Deffy…marvelous news…I think you needed this and feeling lovely and admired. You don't sound very taken with him though…second date yay?
Try MrB and send him a message…you never know!

As the date went in and we relaxed more I definitely did fancy him. But I'm not rushing headlong because I've been burnt like that before.

MrB I think is in it for the ego boost 🙄

Oh Deffy…MrB must be hos royal hotness bit he is in a dating app/website…he is looking for “something” or “someone” and he picked chatting with you. SO, you are HOT TOO 😘

Oh you're very kind.

We sparked a fair bit but yeah obviously not enough for him to pursue 🤷‍♀️

This sounds like a lovely first date! And well done for taking the compliment 👏🏻 we’re usually the first ones to put ourselves down but enjoy it!

Definitelycross

yes well done for taking that compliment
😊

know your worth !

I need some advice on a pithy polite sentence
to send to a single dad neighbour who’s been sniffing around

weirdly more texts etc since I told him I was dating (and kind of with someone) which I find a bit weird ? Like he knows I’m on the market for sex ?

I’ve been ignoring his texts but as neighbours and his DC knows mine that feels rude ?

or maybe not say anything ? But it’s kind of annoying me now

Worsy…I G N O R E…there, advise…

Mila14

ok ! Ignore
easy !!!

Agree, don't interact or engage. Ignore.

So Mr Boxer messaged at around 3pm (we were due to meet at 6pm) to say that he's in hospital having scans so would be late. I replied that I understand and his health is priority.

Then at 5pm to say, with apologies, he's not going to make it this evening and hopes we can meet again at some point soon.

I replied, no probs. With a smiley face. And left it at that.

I'm going to archive the chat and forget about him.

Next.

Man this is tough! Glad I didn't traipse out in the dark and freezing night to be stood up though!

@5thWisdom … N E X T! Forget this guy completely. He will be back if he has no other date for a Friday or whatever