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If you need something more than your partner, then separate and go for it. But your affair partner should also give his wife the same courtesy. As someone who has been cheated on, the fact that I was exposed to STDs that were shared by the other woman makes me feel like she should have had some consideration for me. But you know, you're the most important person in the world so if you can live with ruining someone else's family life then crack on OP.

Use condoms religiously.