Dirty sheets cheating boyfriend

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So,I went to my boyfriends after not seeing him for 2 weeks . (He lives 40 miles away ) . I noticed there was sperm stains in his bed. It looked like someone had sperm rubbed on their vagina and they'd sat on the edge of the bed and left a imprint. When I questioned what it was he said "food". I argued that wasn't food and I'm not stupid and we both know full well what it is.
He then said it was his friend as his friend had the keys to his house as he stores his bike there. Apparently his friend admitted it and said sorry. I wanted proof of this as it was my boyfriends bed,not his . Apparently I'm weird for wanting confirmation it was his friend . And that I'm a bitch and he's finishing me as I clearly don't trust him. Just want to say he text a prostitute for a price list at beginning of our relationship when he was back at home so this is where my doubts are coming from. Surely if you were innocent you'd save a 2 year relationship. Advice please. Sorry if it's tmi I just need other people's opinions on this .

You know the answer - he’s cheated. Please don’t waste another day of your life.

It looked like someone had sperm rubbed on their vagina and they'd sat on the edge of the bed and left a imprint

Haha, not too much information at all OP. This cannot be real

Well he's filthy and you don't trust him, so what's the point?

Just ditch him already and find someone who does laundry.

The only advice you need is to walk away. Don't discuss it with him any further. Get out, block him, there's no need to allow him to explain himself ...walk away!

I promise you now it's real. I'm sat up at this time absolutely devastated

Trust your instincts. He sounds like a nasty piece of work.

the gaslighting is just classic. The anger too. And the break up. He’s been caught so he ends it first because he knows he can’t get out of it.

I’m very sorry OP but it’s over. Best well rid of him.

Thankyou. It's just a lot to process at the moment. Travelled over 40 miles with my children as wanted a nice weekend away for my daughter's birthday to see that. It ruined it

And if it was sperm he’s not used a condom.

Hello STI! Ewww.

He’s really really not worth it.

your daughter doesn’t need anyone else but you and her family to have a good time.

It's so disgusting honestly. I've been to the clinic this morning. I feel so dumb

I know she wanted to go to his city as there's something there that isn't in our area so made sense to make a weekend of it. Will be planning something else for next weekend ,just us 🙂

You caught him cheating AND lying.
Better than catching an STI.

Haven't got results yet 😩 only went clinic today. I really hope not

It looked like someone had sperm rubbed on their vagina and they'd sat on the edge of the bed and left a imprint.

You are clearly unhinged.

Most definitely not . I know what I saw.

Just want to say he text a prostitute for a price list at beginning of our relationship.

If you chose to stay with him after the above it's your own fault.

It most probably is to be honest. I should of left there and then . I suppose I had rose coloured glasses on at the time as was going through the love bombing stage and believed everything he said. Coincidentally that was "a friend " too until I got it out of him over a month later that he did it . I'm so stupid

Honestly this line was the best thing I’ve read on MN

what?!?! 😂😂😂

what are you asking, he’s lied, he cheated and even txt prostitutes. He’s already ended the relationship and done you a favour, just don’t beg for or take him back. Not really anymore to discuss

"I'm so stupid."

Maybe.

But you don't have to stay stupid.

Absolutely mental isn't it! Couldn't believe my eyes! And was just wanting other people's opinions as he was clearly gaslighting me making me feel like the crazy one for wanting proof if was his friend 🤦 wanted to know if I was being unreasonable as that's how he's made me feel or what would anyone else would do in this situation

Jeez. You think he’d at least change the bedsheets. Boak.

Trust me . I lost my stupidness today.

It's so vile🤮🤮

I think it’s a really specific thing to predict the situation and the circumstances leading to that imprint
i honestly wouldn’t even know what that would look like.
and I’m sorry you’re in this situation but the imprint or the friend or whatever are irrelevant
he’s broken up with you already
hes lied to you
and he’s contacted prostitutes
not to mention you don’t trust him
the relationship is done anyway
it doesn’t matter what he said or did now

It was black bottom bed sheets and the bodily fluids are white. The stain was obvious. It was clear as day. And he's one to end the relationship then try coming back a few days later. It's been like this for a while