That's it really. I've name changed for this. I'm genuinely interested in why some women are happy to do more domestic chores than their male partners.
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Why are some women happy to do more domestic chores?
GenuineInterest · 13/06/2022 13:28
GenuineInterest · 16/06/2022 21:51
@AryaStarkWolf I can't stop cos he probably wouldn't care or notice and therefore it would just be hurting me.
He actually seems to have improved slightly in the last couple of weeks but it's too little to late. I hate it. I am genuinely intrigued why other women seem to accept it (not talking about the women who are part-time/don't work). I don't understand why they see this as ok
Orangello · 22/06/2022 17:33
I totally get you, some previous posters. I mean I also shop and plan and cook several times per day and clean up afterwards and do laundry several times per week and cook and clean constantly and and and. But I remember 5 years ago he put a Kallax together, so that's all fair and equal in my book.
Raow · 22/06/2022 20:22
I’m very lucky. Mine does the bins, garden, walks the dog 90% of the time, cooks tea 80% of time, puts the washing on and hangs it out in the morning, usually empties the dishwasher, sorts DC out for school and sorts all the finances! We both work FT and he earns more than me.
Raow · 22/06/2022 20:22
I’m very lucky. Mine does the bins, garden, walks the dog 90% of the time, cooks tea 80% of time, puts the washing on and hangs it out in the morning, usually empties the dishwasher, sorts DC out for school and sorts all the finances! We both work FT and he earns more than me.
Brendabigbaps · 27/06/2022 12:17
he does the ironing, I hate ironing, I’d rather do everything else and not have to iron. Simple really
Sweetandsaltycaroline · 21/06/2022 07:27
I do virtually all more domestic chores but I'm not happy about it! 🤣🤣 But if I waited for DH to a) notice what needed doing or b) actually do it, it would be absolute chaos
I do occassionally mow the lawn but I generally concentrate on chores inside because we spend more time indoors and DH notices more gardening chores
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TulipCat · 13/06/2022 13:33
I don't really believe in everything being split 50/50 in a marriage. I think it's an inefficient way to operate as a couple. We much prefer to have one of us taking "the lead" with the other helping as required. I work PT so it makes for me to do the bulk of the meal planning and prep, laundry etc as that frees up more family time at the weekend. DH looks after all things to do with the car as I have zero interest in this, as well as insurance, plus he always does the accommodation research when we go away. We prefer it that way, hence I do more domestic stuff plus look after our cleaner.
BigFatLiar · 27/06/2022 16:17
I'm surprised that people do 3 hours domestic drudgery a day.
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