That's it really. I've name changed for this. I'm genuinely interested in why some women are happy to do more domestic chores than their male partners.
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Why are some women happy to do more domestic chores?
GenuineInterest · 13/06/2022 13:28
Mommabear20 · 13/06/2022 14:36
Because he's shit at them! I end up doing it all again after him anyway!
GenuineInterest · 13/06/2022 15:45
Thanks everyone, interesting to read. It has helped me.
Me and DH work FT - I earn slightly more but I do near enough everything. He mows the lawn, puts furniture together when needed and paints a wall now and again, he also makes meals and takes son to rugby.
I am really resentful and have tried to talk to him about it but he just thinks I'm nagging.
My conclusion is that the lack of good communication is the issue
AryaStarkWolf · 13/06/2022 16:23
And it's the same in the animal kingdom.
You never see a female giraffe without a duster or Iron in her hands
AryaStarkWolf · 13/06/2022 16:23
And it's the same in the animal kingdom.
You never see a female giraffe without a duster or Iron in her hands
HailAdrian · 13/06/2022 16:28
Missing the point but loving that mental image.
AryaStarkWolf · 13/06/2022 16:23
And it's the same in the animal kingdom.
You never see a female giraffe without a duster or Iron in her hands
SlickShady · 13/06/2022 16:30
Don't be facetious. With many animals that live as a group there a very clearly defined gender roles. Generally with the male being the protector and the female the nurturer.
AryaStarkWolf · 13/06/2022 16:23
And it's the same in the animal kingdom.
You never see a female giraffe without a duster or Iron in her hands
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SlickShady · 13/06/2022 16:18
Many women take pride in their home. I know feminists claim gender roles are a result of oppression by the 'patriarchy', but where is the evidence for that?
Maybe societies settled into various gender roles because on the whole men were better and more comfortable doing 'men things' and women doing 'women things'. After all, most, if not all, societies across the globe have the notion of gender roles. And it's the same in the animal kingdom.
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