Would this be a red flag?

[Scienceseeker]

If you were talking to someone new and received this message before your first date, would you see it as a red flag or just a guy who doesn’t know what he’s doing?

”I think if I'm being honest, there might not be attraction between us initially at first sight, but it will probably come with getting to know you better and finding out that you really are a special person and not like the barbie dolls out there who only care about their Instagram“.

Thoughts welcome 🤔

It would be a no from me

Weird. Walk away.

Errrr - I would think to delete and block?

Yeah give that one a swerve

Icky.

Immediately no

Wtf..! Block and delete

Errrr, no thanks .

Definite red flag. He wants you to prove yourself right from the start. I wonder how???

Also shows disrespect for women generally.

Woahhhh, simultaneously negging on you/your looks whilst also dragging other women down too. This guy is a piece of shit. He genuinely thinks you’ll be so grateful to be an unattractive special person to him.

I’ll kick this prick in the balls for you, if you like.

Red flag, he's already telling how it going to be, as if women cannot think for themselves. Don't like the degrading comments of barbie dolls. I'd decline his offer of a date.

Oh Jesus Christ.

Fuck him off and FAST!

bye bye

Definite immediate no

How condescending. It would be delete and block from me.

Yup negging before you’ve even met. Wouldn’t go near him!

It's a no thanks from me!

Wow! Don’t degrade yourself for the date!!

Negging, no thank you.

Run

Eww! Negging at its finest. Why would you even consider this specimen?

It sounds awkward to me and a little bit like he's been on the internet too much (and doesn't know many real life women). Is he very young?

If he is twenty, I'd put it down to lack of experience. If he's thirty, then red flag and dump.

Big red flapping flag, on the hoop he want you to jump through 🤮

Please tell us you’ve blocked him!