It’s early days messaging a bloke on OLD and I got this one this evening. My heart sank a bit as I have a real aversion to blokes who I don’t know from Adam pushing their agenda, especially if it relates to sex.
E.g I pretty much always swipe left if they do the ‘I’m tactile’ line - in my experience it usually means they’re just out of a miserable marriage and are looking to shag anything that moves.
BUT perhaps I’m just being harsh and uptight 🤔
I’ve done a lot of OLD, without much success at all apart from one 18mth relationship (we’re still mates) and I can’t tell if I’m being too dismissive/choosy etc.
So, any thoughts on this one?
‘My kids went back last night, picking up the pieces today and getting organised. Now for my week…!
As for your two versions of hedonism, I am probably somewhere in between.
I will be the last man standing at a party until 6am. I will equally do nice stuff. Whether that means a city break or exploring a weekend of Tantra…
Like I said, probably too wild for Tinder 😉 ‘
Thoughts? Is he just shoehorning his sexual expectations in early?
He’s already mentioned being too wild a couple of times and I’m a bit 🙄. The guy is 53 ffs.
I’m tempted to go back with ‘oh wow, you’re into yoga.. so am I’ and see where that goes but that’s probably just my sense of humour.
I just feel a bit turned off I think.