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He's got a fact finding hearing in court

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userclip · 22/02/2022 16:09

So I've been in a relationship for a few ninety's and things are going well but just wondering if I should take a step back or be a little careful

Basically this week he is going to court to get access to child (hasn't seen them for 8 months) but it turns out this week is a fact finding hearing because of allegations the ex has made, he claims all are untrue and no proof extra but I'm just wondering if a fact finding hearing is just usual practice or are these only done when absolutely necessary

He claims he's totally moved on from ex and things were bad for while before they split but he seems to be getting really worked up about having to see her in court (maybe this is normal to feel like that) Also just found out this weekend that they were in fact meant to of got married last august, everything booked and paid for

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RedToothBrush · 25/02/2022 10:06

Thoroughly depressing. And pretty much as expected.

OP updated elsewhere.

Hen2018 · 25/02/2022 10:48

Ah, still desperately believing everything this man tells her.

Despite knowing he is a liar.

Poor children.

Keepyourheadscrewedon · 25/02/2022 11:02

A lost cause clearly.

Gonnagetgoing · 25/02/2022 11:51

Lost cause indeed. The other thread does indeed make interesting reading.

Keepyourheadscrewedon · 25/02/2022 12:05

Fast forward a year or less and op will be back posting that her boyfriend has completely changed beyond all recognition and what should she do as he is abusing/the children.

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