to bang or not to bang

[UrsLW81]

Okay divorced 41 year old here. I've got to talking with a much younger guy (24) and he's incredibly flirty. Not my usual type at all but the physical attraction is off the scale. I impulsively agreed when asked for my number and we are now texting a lot, is this a terrible idea to bang this guy? Would be the first time with a new guy in 20 years

@ValleyO

Bang? Seriously?

This! What on earth 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

@BlondeWidow

Eugh such a vile lack of class

I agree

Bang 💥

Big age gap there I personally wouldn’t

Just popping in to say do it!! Between splitting with my ex-H and meeting my wonderful DP I had a brief sojourn with a 23 year old (I was 35 at the time) and it was bloody marvellous, he was just so much fun to be with after a marriage where sex had become an huge issue.

I hope the reason OP has not been back is because she's busy banging him like a barn door

To bang or not to bang

Bang and bloody enjoy it is my vote !!

If you fancy him, go for it, OP. Keep emotions out of it though, because it’s possible that he just wants to tick the ‘older woman’ box. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but just be aware.

Would bonk or shag be better than bang? I hardly think the OP is planning on 'making love' to him.

Two consenting adults, no strings, nobody getting hurt? Go for it.

@5128gap Yours is a really interesting perspective. Thanks for taking the time to share it.

Definitely go for it, in a similar situation myself, presently dreaming up plenty of little fantasies of him an his youthful body once I get my hands on it.

Why not?

I have a rule that if I could've given birth to them then I really shouldn't shag them.

I accept this is my rule though and others can do as they please 🤷🏻‍♀️