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He's looked at porn again

103 replies

amiafreakofnature · 07/02/2022 19:18

He promised me the last time it wouldn't happen again.
He doesn't seem to make any sexual effort with us and the marriage has been mainly sexless for the last 15 years .
I need to leave don't I?

OP posts:
hoadinthetole · 14/02/2022 07:13

Yes leave.

I've always found porn watchers to be perpetually disappointing, it won't get any better.

Porn is a deal breaker for me, but even if it wasn't the lies and broken promises would be.

Stickypace · 14/02/2022 07:15

If he can't be bothered to make the effort with sex with you and would rather watch porn you know the relationship has come to an end. I don't mind watching porn if me and my partner have a great sex life.

hoadinthetole · 14/02/2022 07:17

@Bakewelltart987

Leave him for watching porn?

If you are thinking of leaving there has to be more to it than watching porn and your using this as your reason.

How about both of you try to make more effort in the bedroom. Book a romantic weekend away or something.

There absolutely doesn't have to be more reason. She can leave him because she doesn't like his big toe if she wants.

Just because you don't mind a man tugging on his dick while watching other people stage a fake shag show doesn't mean everyone's ok with it.

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