Horrible when things cause a trigger that you weren't expecting.
When MrWG stayed with me at my sister's, I took all the sexy dress up gear, as we'd have plenty of time. Though it turned out he was really tired but that was fine.
Anyway, one early evening he was falling asleep on the sofa, head back, snoring (I wasn't remotely bothered, he was tired, I was watching something, etc) so I suggested he go and have a lie down, he said he didn't need long, so I said I'd come and wake him in about half an hour.
Perfect time to get the sexy gear on!
I get all dressed up, stocking, body, crop.......go in, wake him up by tickling his nose with the feather end of my crop...... he's fine about being woken up, then sees me in my knee high boots etc and says "what's all this in aid of?"
Which I'm sure is a perfectly innocent phrase. But it's what my dad used to say when he'd decided I was doing something wrong. Even typing it has made me tearful. So it was really hard then to be in a playful vibe, and he has no idea how it made me feel (small, in the wrong, miserable, scared, etc).
I should have stopped and told him really. I just carried on but it wasn't a fun sexy session like it could have been, I felt from then like I was going through the motions and not having fun at all.