How did you know your marriage was over... Describe in three words...

[LondonGrimmer]

Or maybe a short sentence. I have massive doubts. Just wondering how others knew...

When I realised that if the police knocked on my door to tell me he had died I would not be able to hide my relief.

He left us

Found the emails

I don’t care.

I hated him. Skin revulsion hatred.

His words became very cruel, zero empathy and utterly selfish.

Cold shark eyes.

Lonely in his company

I found out.

Cocaine, strippers, infidelity, spending on all of that.

Affair after affair

I’m not alone in thinking this thank you others for saying this, death.

Ex emailed man (dick picks).

Realised I preferred it when he wasn't there

He cheated and lied

Not marriage but relationships, all different men.

He didn’t come into the 20 week scan.

He confessed he was into pegging.

I had a panic attack about moving cities. I’ve moved countless times up and down the country, never moved and had that reaction.

Just a deep sadness whenever I looked at him that I knew we could never live together despite how I feel. He has his personal issues I have mine and it would be like a firebomb to put them under the same roof. It’s been a rough year.

Easier without him.

Ignored my birthday. Avoided me. Told me our marriage was a mistake. I was no fun and dwelling in the past (a few months after I had watched my mum die from cancer). Didn’t like my daughter. Decided to move 300 miles away.

Despite all this-I still tried to salvage things for 9 more miserable months. Don’t be like me! X

Oh god he’s on about coming to London with me over my dead body I’ve got plans and they don’t include him.

Not my problem.

She arrived one evening

Never ending depression

I despised him.

He’s a cruel angry narcissist with huge issues about his upbringing. None of which he thinks is his problem. All of which impacted on me and the DC.

I also totally get the dying bit. The first lockdown was HELL ON EARTH.

Rotten, disintegrating aubergine.

Finding a naked girl in my house when I came home early.