How did you know your marriage was over... Describe in three words...

[LondonGrimmer]

Or maybe a short sentence. I have massive doubts. Just wondering how others knew...

Suddenly realised i was in a controlling relationship after reading an article. My feelings changed that instant.

I caught them

I cheated

Wished him dead.

It made me feel dreadful, wishing the father of my DDs dead. It would hurt them so badly. But I wanted him not to be in my life, to be absent from it completely. So I divorced him. It was easier than I imagined. I think he wanted me dead too. He did once say ‘fuck off abd die’ to me. 😢

“You fucking cunt”

The words he shouted at me over and over for 2 hours in the car with my kids in the back.

@Hen2018

He wouldn’t let me have sanitary towels

Wtf 😵

I willed him to just go.

He was unfaithful

Wow. Some really eye opening and scary posts. I'm so sorry for those of you who've suffered domestic abuse.

caught him in bed with my now ex best friend and found it had been going on for 9months, my fault cos i was pregnant

She was cheating

What’s the point? There was no point.

So miserable I wished I was dead.

He told lies
Went out nightly
I felt lonely
Ignored our dd
I lost respect

@OMGisthisforreal

Wished he’d died

Thought about making this happen 😳

Shagging someone else

I walked out.

She'd been slagging me off behind my back for months.
See-ya.

He's a dick

Walking on eggshells

He stole money from my parents and friends.
Alcoholic in denial.
He hit my ds when they were in bed

Dreading being in a room with him.

Only thought about himself.
Gambling addict
Walking on egg shells
He's just a self obsessed wanker

Let me down

We was struggling qnd he gone stay at his mother's as was rough as well as coping with my dad dying but things was getting better and was moving back

But day of my dad's funeral he got his mother to call say he had a headache could not watch the younger two..He didn't even have deceny to call and was seen out and about

I ended up taking all 4 (12,9 3 and 10 months) as well as trying to prop my mum up and my grandparents (dad was only 57 they outlived him and was heartbroken

I never forgave him and told him forget it its over was extremely calm so he knew I ment it

He opted out of parenting

Shouting and spitting

Couldn't forgive the cheating and lying.