[quote youvegottenminuteslynn]@itsahardknocklive
Not really sure what the difference is between him watching those videos all day and someone sitting watching Lorraine then Loose Women. Neither particularly fruitful, but does it make him unwell?
If someone watched loose women (or any show) all day every day and didn't talk about anything else then they would be unwell, obviously. Because it's unhealthy and obsessive behaviour. If a friend did that all day every day and didn't speak about anything else, I would be concerned for their mental health.
And as suggested previously, I'd be inclined to doubt the OPs claim
Why are you inclined to doubt it?
he probably talks about it occasionally and watches some videos, the OP isn't happy about it, so has blown it up in her head to all day long.
Why do you think this when you have no evidence of it?
People have all sort of crazy obsessions.
By definition a 'crazy obsession' isn't healthy when it is all consuming headspace and time wise - and when it involves weapons it's sensible to feel unsettled and unsafe by your partner having them.
There's a small chance this one might have a benefit.
So if there's a small chance, in your words, that this one may have a benefit, there's more chance it won't.[/quote]
I don't particularly disagree with anything you've said. But none of it means he's a right wing extremist incel ticking timebomb, or that he's a threat to the OP.