Are all men this gross

[summerstayawhile]

Ughhhh I've just found out that my partner pees in the garden because he can't be bothered to go upstairs to the bathroom. It's most nights I think although he denied it then admitted it then denied it. .
I actually feel sick and hate the fact he lies about it too.
I hate lying and I hate the thought that he thinks this is ok 🤮

Blimey. I hope none of your OH's get prostate cancer or you're all in for some surprises.

I don't think it's a problem as long as he washes his hands afterwards and wees somewhere where neighbours can't see and where nobody has to walk in it

Mine tries to top up the birdbath from the patio door.

DH pees on the compost heap deliberately, for the reason given above, doesn't worry me.
We kept ducks in the garden for years, they shat wherever they liked.

My son use to wee in the bin because he didn’t want to go upstairs, I found out when emptying it 🤢

Mine does it on the compost!

Wouldn't bother me particularly. Peeing outdoors is pretty environmentally friendly, if you move about a bit.

** not regularly though, just now and again, it's meant to be brilliant for it

Thanks for the reminder that if things ever go to shit between me and DH, I'm better off getting another cat 🤢

It’s pretty gross but I’ve heard it’s a good fox deterrent. If it kept me from being woken up in the middle of the night by them screeching I’m all for it.

That wouldn’t bother me particularly as long as the wee wasn’t accumulating on a non-permeable surface and stinking.

Totally depends on the garden.
Our garden is big and quite wild with lots of trees and bushes and the odd wild wee is not going to make the slightest impact. But if you've got a small neat plot with plastic grass/hard standing then yep that's a bit unpleasant.

Meh. I wee outside regularly. Can't see the issue as long as he's not exposing his dick to neighbours or pissing on the washing..

I don't really understand the outcry around garden wees. Foxes, cats, all manner of wildlife poo and wee in the garden. I couldn't bother myself about it. Unless he's whacking it out when your parents are over for a bbq it's a non issue for me

@Dillydollydingdong

Cats do it, dogs do it, horses, cows, all animals do it. It doesn't do any harm. Why is it a problem?

My dog won't pee in our garden - I have to take her to the end of the street. I don't know many cows and horses living in residential gardens. The volume of adult business in small garden will start to smell pretty quickly if it's happening every day especially at the moment when it's been dry

@Squeakycatflap

Mine tries to top up the birdbath from the patio door.

Not with urine I hope

My husbands fortunately very clean with no bad habits. However he does occasionally pee at the bottom of the garden to deter the badgers!

Ugh. My exH would take a dump in our wooded backyard. He had a tree designated for this act, too. He also was a covert nose picker and loogey spitter in the shower.

One of MANY reasons (not as shallow as these) that he is an ex. And I will never live with another person ever again. At 54, I'm over wanting a partner.

Yes, many men do this & it's a power thing. Tradesmen will often piss in a kitchen sink when in a woman's home.

It's not great, but the nosepicker is so much worse to me. That's really disgusting and would give me the ick right away.

Tradesmen will often piss in a kitchen sink when in a woman's home.

They what now?

Keeps cats out 🤷‍♀️

@dworky

Yes, many men do this & it's a power thing. Tradesmen will often piss in a kitchen sink when in a woman's home.

What? Is that honestly a thing?

The only issue I had so far with them and pissing is that they didn’t flush the toilet but maybe I should be grateful for that after reading this.

@dworky

Yes, many men do this & it's a power thing. Tradesmen will often piss in a kitchen sink when in a woman's home.

I'm sorry?!?

@dworky

Yes, many men do this & it's a power thing. Tradesmen will often piss in a kitchen sink when in a woman's home.

How do you know this? . Are you married to one of these yokes?