Conversation with bf about sexual partners

[BonneMaman15]

So last night bf of 8 months & I were chatting over text & he asked how many sexual partners I've had. I was surprised by the question, so I just replied with a 😂, and he said "that means a lot"
I then asked "you?" & he said "I asked you first etc"
I didn't respond, so a few mins later he texted "still counting?"
I just replied with "2"
Him : I think you missed the 3 before the 2
Me: 😲 No. Less than that.
Him: It must be too many to admit too .......oh dear 🙈🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

No further texting as it was a pointless conversation from my point of view, but then, the baffling part, he didn't text goodnight & good morning which he always does without fail (I did). Tried calling today during his lunch break, he didn't answer. Texted "are you ok?" No response, but messages read.

What the heck is going on here?!?

Unless you happen to be a bottle of olive oil, your virginity is no indication of your quality.

This man sounds like a complete arse.

What an arse, he sounds so much like my ex that I’m wondering if it’s the same person!

What a sulky little twat.

Looks like he was expecting to be able to string you along for a bit longer and he’s now fishing for a response.

Well done op.

He sounds immature and a bit insecure.

If he calls you back he should be ready with an explanation about why he’s not responded to you and I’d also ask him why it matters to him? Is he feeling insecure or something?

Not all men behave in a perfect way…he might just be a bit of an idiot…i wouldn’t chase him though. If he doesn’t get back to you resist the urge to contact him! Unless it goes past a few more days in which case I’d dump him by text and then block his number forever more!

The silent treatment is a PITA and an attempt to control you and regain the upper hand through your apologies. If you haven’t already done so, don’t send him the details he finally asked for. Don’t respond at all, and then bin him in a few days.

Silent treatment?
Dump, people who use the silent treatment are beyond hope and undateable IMO

He sounds like a total dick. Time to move on.

Haven't RTFT, just OP's posts, but it's absolutely none of his fucking business, and to be asking that at 40 years old too, for shame.

I might have been a bit more forgiving if he were 22 and new to relationships.

Get rid OP.

Whatever your response, he was always going to react the same way.
Time to dump him and move on, start adding to your list!

Totally dump.

There is no right answer obv. Forgot the 3 before? Erm. Eh?

I have not discussed this with any boyfriends. Never asked. Those who ask. None of your business. Pushing is a bad sign.

Dump dump dump!

Just thought though.

What about saying minus pi squared. Or handing over Schroedinger equation and say work out out

Anyway yeah dump.

My husband asked me at the beginning of our relationship. I said It was none of his business. However I did tell him I'd had quite a few boyfriends but never told him whether or not I'd slept with them.

What a vile person he is. You deserve much better.

First he asks you questions that are none of his business, then insults you when you don’t answer immediately, and the whole ‘I asked you first.’ Yuck
He sounds about 12.
Fuck that, fuck him. Childish twat.

He's inferred that rather than two former sexual partners, you've had 32. It's totally up to you how many you've had, but for your boyfriend to say that about you is totally disrespectful!!!

"One too many" then block would be a good answer.