Needing “space”

[Aaaalltheboys]

My boyfriend wants “space” for 4 days to consider whether he wants to be in a relationship with me or not. I have asked him not to string this out if he has already made his mind up. He assures me he hasn’t and just needs “space”. I am finding this painful and difficult and am in a lose lose position as he has made it clear he doesn’t want to hear from me in any form over these days. Is space something some people just need? I am not of that ilk so struggling to understand it.

@kurtney

You're coming across great, there. You sound lovely

Thanks. I am 😌

And seeing as you don't seem to have read the rest of the thread;

I agree don't block. You didn't even care enough about him to do that!!!

From a poster at about 00.13

Ah, touche! You've studied the thread better than me!