I’ve just messaged the OWs husband

[The6thQueen]

Found out she’d called my husband again and asked him to set up another email account for them to talk. We’re over
But I’ve just forwarded her husband all their WhatsApp messages and images of her in the shower. Apparently she hadn’t told him the full story and they are starting IVF again shortly.
Im shaking and feel like a bitch, but I want her to hurt (and my stbxh) to hurt like I and my children are

And you’re not wrong! Ignore the victim blaming bunch, they don’t have a clue what they’re talking about.

Tbh if I was him and she was pregnant I'd be wanting a paternity test!

well done xx

I give you more for what you have done now, but you deserve respect just for being you OP.

I can tell you are hurting.

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself.

@StrawberrySundayz

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself.

I don’t think OP is going to heal by this. She is just trying to do what she would expect someone else to do for her. Your comment is quite patronising.

@The6thQueen

I totally understand why you did this. You're hurt; injured, humiliated. And you're lashing back because that's the only thing you can control right now.

I promise it will get better.

Please talk to friends and family and keep putting one foot in front of the other, until it all starts making sense again.

Your husband is a twat and so is the OW.

Keep talking on here.

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself

Well, I hope you never have to learn that sometimes life is SHIT.

If you can't be helpful then just shut up. @StrawberrySundayz

@StrawberrySundayz

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself.

I hope one day you learn that making condescending pronouncements to people who are reeling with pain isn't the way to behave if you don't want to look like a dick.

@StrawberrySundayz

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself.

Who made you Queen of Healing Yourself? I hope you learn one day that some people find stuff works for them that doesn't work for you.

@StrawberrySundayz

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself.

Behave like what exactly? Telling a man whose being cheated on the truth of his life. Making sure he knows who he is with before he has children with her.

I’d say that’s bloody commendable!

@StrawberrySundayz

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself.

I hope one day you learn this isn't the way for you to behave @StrawberrySundayz if you don't want to look like a prized idiot with the social skills of a lamp post. You look far worse than the OP does.

No judgement from me OP. I'm sorry you're hurting x

Well done, they gave no thought to anyone else. I would want to know. In a perfect world you could take on the pain and send them on their merry way with a generous heart, but bugger that.
I would have done the same, you are their doormat and they have no respect for anyone..

sorry meant 'not' their doormat.

@StrawberrySundayz

I hope one day you learn this isn’t the way to behave if you want to heal yourself.

Oh

Thank you for your kind words all

I'd have done the same op.

Ignore the sanctimonious dick heads.

Good for you!! Why should you feel all the hurt and let her hide it from him

Sending love

You did the right and moral thing OP. Good job

You certainly did the right thing for her dh. Poor man is getting ready to go through ivf with his wife and at the same time she is telling somebody else she wants children with them! Her behaviour is absolutely appalling, as is your husbands, but yours is understandable.

In his shoes I would want somebody to tell me…

Sending love and strength to you for the coming months.

I’m glad you did

I didn’t cover myself in glory - I telephoned her earlier. She told me she only asked for the email to have a way for them to contact each in one case either of their marriages didn’t work out in a few months time.
I’d want to know this is the kind of woman I’m about to have a baby with…

She actually said that to me, as if, if she calmly and reasonably explained it to me, it would be fine and be understandable and ok.
The woman is fucked up beyond belief, and this is who he threw me over for