Well.....
...first of all as he arrived, so did the gardener/postman who asked me out for dinner a couple of weeks ago. I was very confused to open the door to the postie (without a parcel, at 6pm) and MrWG's car on the drive (but could not see him). So, there I am staring at postie, and he says something I don't understand (because he speaks Geordie and I don't) and I say "have you got a parcel for me?" he says no, come for my money - OH! He's come for his pay for the lawn, I was relieved I can tell you, for a minute I thought I'd maybe accidentally arranged a date with him without realising due to his accent. Pay him, MrWG standing on the driveway wondering why I have a postman at 6pm.....
Postie says "you going out?", I say yes, he says "lucky bugger" looking at MrWG!
...aaanyways.......MrWG helps me with the loo flush, turns off the water. We go to eat, bumping into the plumber on the way (village life, eh?). ((Plumber is coming Monday to fix the loo))
Food/pub was lovely, walk was sweaty and humid.
Home, bed. So, he's very good at everything......except sex! Loses erection when it gets to the sex part. Can finish by BJ/HJ though, so it's not a physical thing. We don't talk about that (last time he said he'd bring viagra and I don't know if he did, but suspect he did because he didn't have a drink and you're advised not to drink with it).
I actually don't mind right now, because all the rest is great, and maybe he'll gradually get over it. I don't want him to be under pressure.
Holds me all the time, kisses me all over, strokes every part of me, asks what I want etc.
He's so lovely, got up and brought me tea in bed in the morning. More playing, I logged on to work at 9am and went back to bed til 9.57am when I got up for a 10am meeting and he left. I told him that if I had a bacon sandwich it would be the perfect morning - he said he'd remember that!
Anyway, lots of discussion about sex, kink, what we both want to do etc, til about 3am. But none about 'the relationship' - I am very sure he just wants casual.
Today, Mr Decorator texted and asked if I have any dates lined up, then said "because I'd like to take you out". He feels bad and thinks him doing the decorating got in the way of him asking me out and he knows I had other dates. I said "is this potentially a date?", he said "I am asking you on a date, just in case you weren't sure I'm attracted to you" - anyway, upshot is that I said it would be nice to go out with him but I don't see us having a relationship. He said he appreciates my honesty.
I mean, he's good looking but he has so little conversation and no oomf. (he might have the oomf MrWG doesn't though!)
MrTall has been pretty quiet, I've not engaged either, but he also has no conversation, so it's not like I'm ignoring something, there's almost nothing, but I have to tell him it's a no, now I've practiced on Decorator it might be easier.
I'm exhausted, luckily my plans for tonight got cancelled.