He did the mash. The Geller mash.

[StuckInPollyannaMode]

Thread 4. Wow. Thank you for putting up with my ramblings thus far, and for all the support - I couldn't have done it without you all.

Previous thread here

I can confirm he has purchased a masher. He sent me a picture of it and asked if it was alright

Thank God for that! I was so worried about you! So much so that I have deluded to tell you! Keep going.....you are fabulous.

Delurked......though I might be deluded!

If he tries to engage in conversation with you I would just to come out with "I am SO disappointed in you so let's not discuss anything right now"

@RandomMess

If he tries to engage in conversation with you I would just to come out with "I am SO disappointed in you so let's not discuss anything right now"

This.

Don't engage.

Smother the bastard with a complete lack of oxygen for his endless whining😁

Hope the girls are OK?

Just want to throw in another “You’re bloody fabulous!!!” (If you were five, you’d be getting lots of stickers on your chart!)

I think 6 weeks is a long time, but I have never been in your position.
We have bought a property, settled and moved in , in less time.
Good luck 💐

Just back from the school run - what a glorious day!

The girls were on super form. Both slept with me and we had a chat this morning about how proud I am of them and that they can do anything. That Daddy says things which he shouldn’t and that I’m delighted I’m raising two strong independent girls who are clever and funny and articulate. That if it happens again they are to remember that.

I also said that the divorce is in no way their fault and that it was a big grown up decision that I made to make life better for the three of us. Big hugs all round and they skipped off happily.

I feel on top of the world this morning.

And messaging from FWB is going extremely well and helping me to get perspective on it all. 3 weeks to go til we meet up.

Rocking it Polly

Meanwhile I'm thrilled to have managed to get my new sport bra on by myself 😂😂😂😂😂 - I'm sticking with small wins!!

Glad the DDs were happy this morning, long may the week continue like that.

Well done, that's exactly the kind of affirmation they need. Keep doing it any time they're wobbling. You're the strong, positive influence in their life and they will turn to you instinctively, seeking out a counter to his negativity.

What a superstar you are!

That's great news Polly, your girls will be fine, knowing you've always got their back. Well done Random! All for the small wins

@RandomMess

Meanwhile I'm thrilled to have managed to get my new sport bra on by myself 😂😂😂😂😂 - I'm sticking with small wins!!

Glad the DDs were happy this morning, long may the week continue like that.

Ahh! But can you get if off again?!! 😂 🌹

More stickers for your chart after that brilliant chat with the girls! You are well on your way to collecting your reward!!! 🥰🥰🥰

@Newestname001 funnily enough as I was stripped ready to get into the shower I had a moment of worry as I attempted it. Fortunately it worked!!

I own up to the fact that i haven't read all 4 separate posts of your drivel

I’m assuming you mean threads, not posts. And that’s a shame because if you had read them then you would have a better grasp of what’s going on and would have saved yourself all the unnecessary upset you’re feeling now.

Take care.

@crestar let's hope you never need support or help to leave and divorce an emotional abuser.

Bloody hell, did Geller find Mumsnet?!

Having read ALL of your posts, StuckInPollyannaMode , I hope you are taking in the encouragement that is intended and ignoring the ridiculous time wasters who feel compelled to air opinions without bothering to read any further.
I think you have been amazing and the support on here has shown the best side of MN - let’s leave it that and not give any glory to those who don’t deserve it.

Fuck off you counting troll/Geller you’re a twat either way

Counting = CUNTING fucking phone

Crestar has been trolling all the boards on here.