I think I'm being ghosted

[jaffar]

And right before Valentine's Day

Why do men do this? Seriously who thinks this is the best way to end a relationship or treat someone? Especially in a fucking pandemic when they're your bubble.

@hubblebubble75 well written.. Op mines gone to a new level and I'm shocked.. This isn't the person I met.. Sometimes there's now answer, just be thankful he will be someone else's problem because he won't change

Does he need help though?

Or is this just a piss poor excuse for shitty behaviour?

Tell him that next time he feels depressed, to drop you a quick txt to say just that. Has he apologised for not letting you know?

End this......

Nobody deserves to be treated the way you have been treated ...

NOBODY

Depression does not give you carte blanch to shit on people you supposedly care about 🌺

what an Arse he is 🙄

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard of men doing shitty things then when challenged flipping it around to make themselves the victim. Block him now.

This I can understand. A lot of behaviour that baffles or seems out of the norm is to do with mental health problems.

It's so tricky. I think it's sad for both of you. X

Choose you. Not him. Give yourself all the headspace that he is taking up x

really OP, walk away now, keep some dignity

You can't find it because it doesn't exist. It's not about you loving them. If they love you, they won't put you in a position where you feel you need to fight for them, and if they don't, no amount of fighting for them will help. Fighting for someone you love is being a doormat. There's no line between them because they are the same thing.

@eckhart is right, no amount of trying is worth it if they won't input back. I've had relationships of 6m try harder than my latest 4yr one.. Your own dignaty walk away.

I had a guy who has done this to me 4 times over 2 years and each time came back with a pathetic excuse after I instigated contact and I let him do it to me again. Its a vicious circle, they don't change and don't care. Its left me with huge mental health issues so please just walk away. Its cruel and spiteful to ghost someone.