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solutionneeded · 26/01/2021 16:07

I've been going over this for a few days now and I'm still feeling very uneasy. Me and my partner have been together 3 years, but do not live together. I've been on antibiotics and so had told me partner (support bubbled before anyone jumps down my throat) that we needed to use a condom (which he dislikes) as the antibiotics could stop the cough pill working. Sorry for TMI but he said he would put one on in a min and inserted himself into me. He didn't really give me a chance to say no and stupidly I let him go with it for a couple of minutes, I then said to him, please stop and put one on, he ignores me carried on for another 10 seconds and came and said it was my fault as my voice is sexy. I feel so angry at myself for letting him even start sex with no condom and even angrier at him for not listening to my wishes. I feel so upset that he thinks this is ok and doesn't respect my wishes. I've told him how angry I am and haven't seen him since Sunday (this happened Saturday evening). I've taken the morning after pill.

OP posts:
billy1966 · 04/02/2021 23:28

Well done OP, I hope you are feeling a bit better.
Best of luck with your meeting tomorrow.
Flowers

dublingirl66 · 04/02/2021 23:45

Excellent

Stay strong

Block the abuser

Xxxxx

CausingChaos2 · 05/02/2021 00:27

Well done, you are doing ever so well Flowers

Nothing you did or did not do caused this. The reason this happened is because he is a rapey bastard. I hope the support you receive tomorrow is helpful.

WinoLino · 06/02/2021 08:33

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WinoLino · 06/02/2021 08:36

Apologies, I seem to have managed to post in the wrong thread. I've reported it.

Well done OP, I've read through this and looks like you are doing amazingly! Keep going Smile

MyOtherProfile · 06/02/2021 08:39

Well done OP. I hope you can really free yourself of this awful man now.

Weenurse · 06/02/2021 08:52

Stay strong, one day at a time💐

AdoraBell · 07/02/2021 21:15

Well done getting the support and reporting him.

Stay strong.

LicketySplat · 07/02/2021 22:13

I'm really sorry this happened to you. Have you seen I May Destroy You? It addresses this very issue. Maybe he should watch it.

altiara · 07/02/2021 22:23

How are you doing OP?
Stay strong Flowers

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