Marking place, I have lots to catch up again!
I should slip off to the 50s dating thread but it seems to have disappeared so I'll stay here!
Isitreally I agree this has to be his last chance, if he cancels or doesn't show you need to ditch him.
Pineapple sorry you're fed up, I think lots of people are fed up at the moment, another lockdown in January with nothing to do other than work and walk is soul destroying. Make plans to make your new house your home, exciting that it's all yours. Look forward not back!
My ex was a bastard, had an affair after 20 years of marriage, 24 years together but just lied and lied about it for months, told me I was crazy, going mad, losing the plot etc etc. Now lives with her (they work together), turns out it was going on for several years and she's not the first 🤬
Anyway enough about the trash!
Still seeing mr check, has been 2 months. Wish we could go out though! It's not like proper dating which is what I wanted after the shit end to my marriage. But I guess that's what you get if you meet during lockdowns!
I like him, I fancy him, we get on and can talk for hours. We have lots in common but are very different in some aspects. Not sure if we could be too different but it's hard to tell without normal life. For now, we see each other when we are both child free (neither of us had a support bubble before so that's worked for us) usually once a week, occasionally twice. We walk, cook, eat, drink too much wine, talk, just chill together and have sex! Have never watched any tv or films, just have music on and chat. It's nice, it works for us.
Obviously the cynic in me says it won't last/we'll be too different etc etc but I'm not overthinking, enjoying it for what it is for now.
Hopefully you will all find the same, especially as you're all much younger than me!