Does you husband w*nk?

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I have been married for 11 years. My husband recently announced that he has frequently masturbated (every 2-3 weeks) throughout our entire marriage. We have a good sex life, currently making love 8-11 times a week. I found it insulting that he told me he had a wnk this morning, even though we made love last night.
We are fairly adventurous in the bedroom and make plenty of time for using toys etc. He has discussed this with his friends who all tell him he is perfectly normal & they do exactly the same within their marriages. One even admits to wnking every day, despite having sex 4-5 times a week. Comments please.... :)

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8- 11 times ?

Never 7 or 12 ? Pathetic.

I read this as wink.

8-11 times a week? Not many people have time for that AND wanking! Does he suffer with friction burns??

2/10

Yes it's normal and you will find it extremely difficult to find a man who doesn't wank.

what does it matter what he does with HIS body - its obviously not effecting what goes on between the two of you

Is it bad that my response in my head was 'oh ye, every man w*nks, no biggie, but 8-11 times a week! Now that's unbelievable!'

😕

Comments please? No.

My husband recently announced that he has frequently masturbated (every 2-3 weeks) throughout our entire marriage.
Why? Where? Did he tap a wee glass and request silence before making this announcement? Who else was there?

I’m surprised he has the time when you’re already having sex up to 11 times a week!

But yes very normal, I think most men do it and see it as quite separate to sex

Genuinely never asked but guessing yes and don't care either way

My Fiance doesn't. He did when single but not all the time! I asked him when this subject has come up and he said he would much rather have sex. He said he honestly doesn't want to!

I'm surprised that you're surprised by this.

@fantasmasgoria1

My Fiance doesn't. He did when single but not all the time! I asked him when this subject has come up and he said he would much rather have sex. He said he honestly doesn't want to!

Men lie. Just saying.

Do you?

@fantasmasgoria1

My Fiance doesn't. He did when single but not all the time! I asked him when this subject has come up and he said he would much rather have sex. He said he honestly doesn't want to!

Bet he never watches porn either.

Yes, I don't see how you are surprised he wanks. No further comments.

I’d assume he does but I haven’t ever asked about it. It’s not really any of my business.

Of course he does. Why on earth wouldn't he?

I don't see an issue. As long as it's not affecting your sex life!

Sex 8-11 times a week and masturbates ever couple of weeks?

Where’s his ambition??

How old are you OP?
I only can explain your post by being (or marrying) young and living some sort of sheltered life.

Of course it’s perfectly normal for men (or women) to masturbate in addition to good sex life. It’s not taking anything away from his interactions with you.
Do you think you need to control/own 100% of all his sexuality to feel secure in the marriage?

Masturbation - where it doesn’t replace heathy sex life - is a perfectly normal and healthy activity. People do it in addition, not instead of sex with their partner.

Less often than I do, but yes.