@Anordinarymum
The thing here is, that some men who have sexless marriages at home but don't want to divorce see sex workers as an alternative to having an affair which can end up very messy.
I wonder if a wife would prefer to know her husband was using a condom on someone he did not know or doing it without with someone he might have feelings for ???
Just sayin........
My wife has told me in the past that was one of the things they (the management at the whorehouse she used to work at) used to keep telling the girls (prostitutes) to ease their consciences. That they were almost doing public service work, keeping the sexually frustrated old men of the world happy, so they wouldn’t have to cheat on their wives. Wouldn’t it be better that they fuck you and you make a good living in the mean time and that way they don’t have to run around having an affair or cheat on their wives. No emotional attachment, no one gets hurt and you (and most importantly her freaking boss) get rich in the process, everybody’s a winner! Good grief!
That was another thing my wife put up with as a little girl. Her father was a deacon at the local church but he was a regular at the massage parlor up the street and came home with an STD a couple times. Her mother and dad used to fight all the time about him frequenting prostitutes and my wife as a small child used to blame herself. That didn’t help her self esteem one bit either. There is such a thing as unintended consequences. Prostitution is not only damaging to the prostitute, but to the John and often times the wife and family. I DO KNOW THIS FOR CERTAIN.
Of course the John has never cared about the prostitute and they never will. They figure as long as they are paying for it, that entitles them to do whatever they want, whether it was agreed upon or not, once they bought and paid for you, you have become their property. This feeling of entitlement often turns into violence, never respect.
If a wife considers her husband doing that to a woman (prostitute) under those circumstances, and who knows how her husband is treating that prostitute, is he subjecting her to violence, is he going to her because it’s easier on his conscience to pay to abuse another woman, someone he has no emotional attachment to, rather than abuse his own wife, if she is willing to live with that under any circumstance, well then that’s something that she has to decide for herself. Like I said in my original reply, I am very close to the subject and have a very strong opinion, but don’t expect anyone else to hold or share the same opinion, I’m just sharing my story.