Would you sleep with two different people in the same day?

[ElderflowerPotion]

I don’t mean a threesome.

Purely hypothetical at the moment, but I’m curious to know what people would do.

I only have every other weekend free due to childcare. I have a casual partner, and I’ve been speaking to someone for the past 6 weeks I really want to meet.

When lockdown is lifted (yes, I don’t it’s going to be any time soon hence hypothetical), I would probably see on of them Friday Night and the other Sat night. If I stay over (which I do with my casual), there would be morning sex.

So that’s my question really - would you have morning sex with one person and then have sex with someone else in the evening? I can’t decide if I think it’s fine or a bit weird.

I haven't. I doubt I could find more than one person to want to have sex with me. But I would if I wanted to.

No

@BluebellForest836 - I am really curious about how you found the time for 3!

Factoring in showering, napping, and all the other things I'd need to sort inbetween, I'm not sure how I'd fit someone else in.

absolute nonsense.

Yes, your following post is absolute nonsense.

The point of the expression is perspective of self worth and respect. There is a point where a man feels uncomfortable with the quantity of partners and lose respect for the woman. There is also a point where a lock opened by too many keys means you don't respect the lock.

Life is short.
Sex is fun, feels good and does us good.
I can see nothing wrong with consensual sex with whoever you want, when you want, as often as you want
Some deeply entrenched negative outdated views about women who enjoy sex without being monogamous, married or committed.
Enjoying sex is whatever form makes you happy doesn't mean you are grim, lacking in self respect or any other negative connotation.
Grab life's pleasures.

Not my cup of tea and I can't imagine a bloke being too happy double dipping his soldier in an already runny egg

Think you would be surprised how many wouldn’t give a shit

I would love to be you
Go for it

So the whole “packing your daughter off to have sex” was a touch hyperbolic on your part?

You've missed the key part of my statement though... "with two different men".
Everyone needs to have sex. As I've said, I find the double dipping grim! It's just not something I'd do.. or have ever done tbh.

I think both men deserve to know about the other (obviously not details but just to be informed that they aren't the only sexual partner) - for sexual health reasons.

I’ve done it, wasn’t intended to be like that, two casual partners, just happened.
Have also done it where it was prearranged and requested by one of the blokes! Both knew and it was a turn on for all

No, but I’m not someone who could ever have casual sex, it’s either all or nothing which is why I’ve only ever had that kind of intimacy with two people in total and one of them is obviously my husband 😂 I’d also feel like a cheat, but again I’d only ever be intimate with someone I was committed to.

You need to do what you want, if you’re happy, enjoying yourself and having safe sex then go for it, it’s your life, live it as you please!

“Double dipping in an already runny egg”!!!???

What a gross thing to say! Sounds like the woman would be dirty and unusable. Surely condoms would be used anyway and showers in between!

Vretz I genuinely can't decide if you're joking or not. What on earth has 2 consenting adults having sex got to do with future partners level of respect? I honestly cannot understand how you're linking the 2. Can you explain? You think my fiancé's level of respect for me has anything to do with the number of men I've slept with? He doesn't even know and it's never even crossed my mind to ask him his number because it has absolutely (and I cannot stress this strongly enough) nothing to do with our relationship.

@LolaLollypop

Just out of interest, is it the same day that's the problem or multiple partners? If on was Thurs and the other Sun, would you still hold the same view?

It’s not wrong as such, but I wouldn’t do it. I’m not sure that the best way to embark on a potential new relationship is by having sex with someone else on the morning of your date!

DaisyChain Agree 100%!

Yes.
We're all grown ups here. As long as its safe and consensual (and clean, after a good shower in between) then do as you please.

I wouldn’t shag two different people on the same day now, but when I was a student and working in town bars, that would have been a fairly normal weekend. When I was young, free & single, I was free & single .

You've missed the key part of my statement though... "with two different men"

That isn’t the key bit, the key bit is the implication she’s getting rid of her children to have some sort of allegedly wanton lifestyle when actually that’s not the case. Why the OP is alone for the weekend is totally irrelevant.

I'd also get to know the online chat guy in person a bit before sleeping with him for safety reasons as they could obviously be anyone.

I find it a bit gross but that's just me.

I'm laughing at the pearl clutches and those that think us mum's can't have multiple sex partners, or don't respect our fanny!

I love my body, I respect it massively, and if anything I'm in control of everything.

I choose who to invite over, when to invite them over (when DS is elsewhere) and the terms of the arrangement I'm in charge.

I'm in a very powerful position, I love it, and sexual experiences with other consenting adults is great for my mental health and physical health done safely.

Women have sex, we have sex with more than one man our entire lives. Get over it.

In answer to the actual question in the thread title, no I'd never do it or anything like it - for many different reasons - but clearly lots of people on this thread would and everyone is different.

You're going to get the prudes disagreeing OP.
Many many men do this often. Those who think they don't are naive and well, prudish!

@elderflowerpotion

Same day thing mainly I guess but I still find even a matter of days a bit if it's on a regular basis. I just associate that type of casual sex with being young, single and responsibility free.