Husband sexual group chat

[love1234]

My husband was being a bit funny with his phone, so I asked to see what he was hiding. After a lot of saying I needed to calm down etc he showed me - lads chat is full of pictures of random naked women from the internet and they're all rating them who is hottest, including my husband.

I'm absolutely raging with him and he can't see why. AIBU?

P.s. we are not one of those couples who doesn't allow porn etc. but I feel like this is too far.

'Not sure you can distinguish between beauty and sexual attraction and thrills - '

Looking at those gorgeous clocks doesn't get me going! If you can't differentiate between looking at something and thinking that's beautiful and looking at something and wanting to fuck them (it? Re the clocks) then you're pretty odd.

Children are beautiful.. are you sure you want to head down this path.

I’m presuming they WOULD be grading them in terms of wonderful and awesome - what do you presume they are doing then? @beetrootricks

Eh ceejay, grading them in terms of 'that's a vagina/anus/mouth if like to stick my penis in' of course not quite the same as admiring a nice piece of art or a beautiful sunset...

I’m completely gobsmacked by that post. When many of us find a person if the opposite sex attractive or beautiful - in biological terms our sexual urges set in because we want to procreate with them. The fact you’ve mentioned children there is utterly disgusting.

Children are beautiful.

You say there is no difference between appreciating beauty and sexual desire.

Come on, expand on that.

What’s wrong with sticking a penis in a vagina??? Why is that not beautiful?

No - I said beauty and sexual desire are related. A penis is beautiful, a vagina is beautiful.

What???

Answer the question.

Also depends whose penis and whose vagina and the circumstances.

Expand on your point that there is no difference between appreciating beauty and sexual desire.

'sticking' it in.

FYI I sense your sexual technique is sub par.

Ceejay are you able to think a little deeper? My point was that men who would talk about women like that and grade them on their appearance or sexual worth clearly just see us as a collection of holes for them to fuck.

No no no they are respectfully feeling awe at the wonder of the human body.
Everyone knows that.

?????? If I find a man beautiful and I wanted to procreate - then I’d feel a sexual desire towards him. ‘Sticking’ is simply a word - would you prefer more Mills and Boon type language?

You only want/ have sex to try and produce a baby?

Interesting.

I’m afraid I think that YOU need to think deeper.

Sticking it in is focusing on male experience and is grim language.

Stick it in her hole is one I've heard men use... Hole is of course just another word. As are gash, snatch, etc etc

Well that's me told!

Of course not - I didn’t say that at all...when did I say ‘only’

It’s not nice language - but women on here use the f word and c word too. I’m off here now because you are simply goading. Have fun people xx

'the f word' yes you actually are 12

Posters challenging you and asking you to explain your illogical arguments isn't goading ceejay.

Given the number of times you've posted, waited then posted again without any reply on this thread it would be perhaps more accurate to describe your posting as goady, and it will be interesting to see how long this flounce lasts.

@RiaBrown
I'd be down