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Is he into me or shall I leave it

114 replies

Ineedwine1 · 12/03/2020 16:35

Been talking to this guy for a few weeks. He's the organiser of my hobby. There's been flirting and we get on. I catch him looking at me and we smile at each other alot. We begun messaging each other last week and it's flirty. However I don't know if he's doing it because he's bored and has nothing to do or likes me. Last night I asked if he was up to much at the weekend he said no not really and I said I weren't either. He replied so you're free... That's interesting. I replied yea I am whys that interesting. Hoping he would ask me out. He's read the message and just not replied!! I'm suppose to be seeing him tomorrow at this hobby so I don't really get it. Is he interested or should I ignore him now

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Mumoftwo1973 · 14/03/2020 16:34

Please don't message him again.

You're investing a lot of feelings and pride into someone who you aren't in a relationship with.
If he's like this now and you haven't even had a date imagine what a massive pain in the ass he'd be if you started seeing him

Lippy1234 · 14/03/2020 16:43

Delete him from your contacts.

Summersunandoranges · 14/03/2020 16:44

Ineedwine 😂😂😂 worse things have happened at sea.

So you sent him a message and he left it there unopened for six hours?

What a wanker!

Just brazen it off now when you next see him. And delete his number! Grin

WestCountryLady · 14/03/2020 17:22

*All the serious relationship I’ve had were very straight forward. No weird or confusing messages, game playing over reading messages and not replying

Don’t do it to yourself*

Absolutely this!

LandOfAThousandJumpers · 14/03/2020 21:40

And - while you’re spending all your energy deciphering stupid behaviour from this eejit, you miss out on the actual interesting guys.

He’s cock-blocking you OP.

CandyLeBonBon · 14/03/2020 21:49

Ugh he sounds like a total knob op. A shallow, immature, game playing knob

TaterWaffle · 14/03/2020 22:03

Oh God. I hope you’re ok. This kind of shit is why I don’t think I’ll ever go near a man again.

He’s a douche.

How do you unsend a message then?!

Ineedwine1 · 14/03/2020 22:38

It's on the Instagram messages. Hold down the message and click unsend. It will delete at both ends. Can also delete from WhatsApp too if you didn't know?
I posted a non interesting picture of me watching TV earlier. He pops up and asks where his invite is. This guy just does not care!

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bangheadhere40 · 14/03/2020 22:45

He's just messing about isn't he!

TaterWaffle · 15/03/2020 01:03

Oh right. I thought you meant a regular text message. I don’t have Instagram or WhatsApp or owt.

He’s being a right plonker isn’t he? Can you not just block him everywhere?

CalleighDoodle · 15/03/2020 01:22

I saw this earlier

Is he into me or shall I leave it
Ineedwine1 · 15/03/2020 09:45

Thanks doddle yes I agree that's quite good advice. And yes he has confused me alot so not worth my time

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Lippy1234 · 15/03/2020 11:14

Just try and forget about him, he’s not into you, he’s not worth using your energy on. Carry on enjoying your activity and use your energy to plan nice things to for the weekends.
In future if a guy asks if you’re free for the upcoming weekend day you are busy doing exciting stuff even if you aren’t. This will get them more interested and keen than someone who says they are free all weekend.

TrudysTerribleFringe · 15/03/2020 11:48

I think he has a girlfriend already. Explains the no night time texting.

He is making sure you are properly hooked before he suggests making you his bit on the side.

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