My husband is disgusting

[katybob]

I love my husband to bits but my god is he the most disgusting thing I’ve ever known. We pretty much eat the same foods but his trumps always stink of eggs. He trumps more than I’ve ever witnessed. He pees on the loo seat and doesn’t clean it up and if I say anything he goes all winey and says he’s sorry he’ll try to remember to wipe it. He doesn’t wash plates up properly they always have something on them. He chucks his dirty smokey smelly work tops back on the clean washing them they get confused with the clean and make the clean smell. He walks about naked. We have no curtains at the mo as just moved and he’s pretty much danny devito to look at. He heaves with out fail every morning when he brushes his teeth. If I ask him to clean he makes a big song and dance and then shows me the poo stained loo brush that he uses before he flushes and it’s covered in soggy loo roll. BTw might seem like I’m just bitching. I am my councillor suggested I find an outlet. I have a one year old boy with better manners than my 35 year old husband. What annoys me most. He wasn’t like it when he lived with his parents cus his mum wouldn’t have it. His answer to it now is it’s his house he will do as he pleases. He keeps making me boil. I hate him

And they say romance is dead

I wouldn't be able to live with this. It's beyond grim...it's absolutely disgusting. Seems like a wifely approach is not working. You will have to shame him, even if it means infront of his child. Next time he leaves the toilet seat dirty, make him go back and clean it. Nag him until he does or tell him that if you have to do it then you will wipe it with his clothes. He leaves the plate dirty, then serve him his next meal in that plate. Make a separate basket for his clothes. His responsibility to wash them and put them away. If he doesn't do it then his loss. Give a warning then follow through. Don't be his slave. He is an adult and needs to act like one. If he can't act like one then you will have to treat him like a child. Living in your own home doesn't mean that you should live like a pig. There are other people in the home too and he is not respecting them atm.

I am so shocked at other posters saying that their husbands are like this. How on earth do you manage to live with these disgusting vile..I want to call them humans but surely no human would like to live like this?! Have some self respect and leave them

I can sort of relate to this! My husband works hard, he works shifts and cooks all the meals because he has more time than I do. I work 9-5 and am the primary Carer for DD (3). He is often naked and farts constantly and it stinks. I'm so sick of it I go to the spare room so I'm not breathing in his stench all night. He thinks it's funny and doesn't see a problem with it. I've tried telling him it's a massive turn off but he doesn't get it. I really think it's affected our relationship because I think he's gross and I don't want to be near him or sleep in the same bed. I gel the sheet are just smelly all the time with it. I'm afraid I don't have any advice I just can't make him see how it affects me and us as a couple. I'm starting to find him quite unattractive too and really it's the constant farting!! Writing this has made me realise I need to have a good chat with him.

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He also doesn't scrape his plate or rinse plates before going in the dishwasher which is annoying and leaves the toilet seat up all the time. He hardly ever cleans the toilet but when he does clean makes it out to be a massive task. Because he does the cooking he goes on and on about how he does "everything " but really it's all he does. I feel so disconnected with him.

Move him out so you get an extra 3 hours a day back due to not having to clean up after him. Sod 'working on making him do it ' that's equal energy of yours being used as if you just cleaned it up yourself omg

And to think we blamed Wuhan.

I'm so glad I'm single.

I couldn't live with that. He'd have to fuck off somewhere else until he stops being a pig.

So embarrassed for all the other posters saying they also choose to live with a walking cesspool. You do know that cock is abundant, do of low value value? That you don’t need to desperately cling to any man you can find, just for the sake of getting some cock? Jfc, raise your standards out of the gutter.

*and of low value

Why the fuck are you all with these repulsive men??

Yes it beggars belief doesn’t it. Fuck that shit (quite literally, it seems)! I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life than put up with a man like that. How on earth have you who live with that daily not had the self-respect to kick them out or walk away??

Why the fuck are you all with these repulsive men??

This

It beggars belief

Such low self esteem, these women must have - very very poor modelling for their children

What a sad post ...

Why the fuck are you all with these repulsive men??
I don't understand that either. I've never been more grateful I live on my own. I could not deal with this level of disgusting disrespect.

He sounds like a pig and clearly doesnt respect you. Before I threw my ex out he wouldnt even clean a plate. He wasnt always like this. He would literally leave shit everywhere and would just sort himself out. Regardless of the state of the house and impact on our sons. To me it was very selfish and meant we didnt matter.

How do you love someone who has no respect for you and treats you like a skivvy?

leave him op

I feel sorry for pigs when I read threads like this. These men are always called pigs but tbh, pigs have far better habits than these revolting specimens. I’d rather share a house with an actual pig tbh. 🐷

Just so gross. Why would you want to live with somebody like this?

Yes poor piggies having such nasty dirty men being compared to them.

I’m sorry piggies, I did you a great disservice!

Honestly horrified that there are women who are willing to live with this and condemn their children to living with it too!