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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

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Scott72 · 16/02/2020 23:56

I thought must women can't orgasm from PiV alone, regardless of the size of the penis.

Wouldithelp · 16/02/2020 23:58

@fedupdotcomlo My experience is, if you stay with a guy who gives you below par sex, it can be decades but one day you wake up and start to realize what you're missing. Then you might stray- then you realize even more of what you've been missing. Grin

Don't grow old with bad sex. I lost from 25-40 on a combination of impotence and premature ejaculation. Shock Love truly is/was blind. At least you realize it's an issue I suppose. Never forget. Smile

Smilebehappy123 · 17/02/2020 00:00

I went with a micro penis once it was horrible
Worse is when they expect you to suck it as well it made me feel sick it looked like a tinned mushroom

BorneoBabe · 17/02/2020 00:02

The trouble is a micro penis makes you feel like Slack Alice

If nothing else, thank you for bringing 'Slack Alice' into my life.

bd67thSaysReinstateLangCleg · 17/02/2020 00:06

Mansperspective The comment I reply to is back on page one.

Scott72 I thought must women can't orgasm from PiV alone, regardless of the size of the penis.

This is true, and I suspect that the women who are saying that a small penis wouldn't be a dealbreaker fall into this category. For those who can orgasm from PIV, penis size is likely to matter.

Women experience sex differently from each other.

BorneoBabe · 17/02/2020 00:08

I thought must women can't orgasm from PiV alone, regardless of the size of the penis.

We need a good polling to test this out. Literally and well, literally. Grin

Smilebehappy123 · 17/02/2020 00:09

How can an adult Male have a three inch dick ?
This is why I dont believe in arranged marriage imagine finding that out on your wedding night Confused

Wouldithelp · 17/02/2020 00:11

@Smilebehappy123 imagine sucking an impotent micropenis. Grin Regularly for the best part of 18 months.

@Scott72 Everyone's different, or even different from one day to the next. Even those who orgasm from PIV I imagine usually need a bit of warming up beforehand. Even that's not always true, though. Grin

SidsWife · 17/02/2020 00:34

I can cum from PIV. And also just nipple stimulation. Do I win a prize?!

Littlewelshridinghood · 17/02/2020 00:34

I stopped seeing a guy because of this. He was a nice guy but I just couldn't stay with him.

Guiltypleasures001 · 17/02/2020 00:37

Well thank you very much Smilebehappy123

I'm doing beef casserole tomorrow with sodding button mushrooms 🥴 Grin

Wouldithelp · 17/02/2020 00:40

@SidsWife I reckon so. Grin I've only managed the nipple thing once.

@fedupdotcomlo Some of it is the look of it, I found. A large one is just more impressive/attractive to look at.

PixieRabbit · 17/02/2020 01:00

If you were sodomised by a button mushroom, would you know about it?

Discuss.

knowmenclature · 17/02/2020 01:08

There isn't anything that is comparable to a decent size penis for the feeling. Smaller, or toys just don't match up at all. It's awful as there's nothing a man can do if its small. He has to find the right woman who feels more passion, sexual excitement in other ways.

sunnydays78 · 17/02/2020 01:16

My ex had a small penis. He was aware of it though. He bought a penis sleeve and good lord it was the best sex I’ve had in my life. He loved it too. Not sure how you could bring it up I can guarantee there would be no complaints from you then.

PixieDustt · 17/02/2020 01:17

Oh no that's definitely a deal breaker.

AskEvans · 17/02/2020 01:19

Have you experimented with different positions? That can help

PixieDustt · 17/02/2020 01:21

Worse is when they expect you to suck it as well

Literally laughed out loud at this.
No way would a travel size penis be going near my mouth 🤢

WhenPushComesToShove · 17/02/2020 01:45

...tinned mushroom... 😂

managedmis · 17/02/2020 01:55

I had this twice. Once with a Norwegian chap (gotta be big, right? Nope) and another time with a lad from work. The lad from work was tiny. Micro willy. It really was the size of my (small) little finger. And he uttered the words 'is it big enough for you babe???' I was speechless.

Also slept with another lad from work (haha) and his cock was humungous. He actually ended up in porn

managedmis · 17/02/2020 01:56

I'm doing beef casserole tomorrow with sodding button mushrooms 🥴 grin

^

Grin
managedmis · 17/02/2020 02:00

How can an adult Male have a three inch dick

^^

The 2 that I encountered were waaaay less than 3 inches. And thinner than an English cucumber for sure 🥒

catinb0oots · 17/02/2020 02:30

@PixieRabbit I just died at 'travel sized'

catinb0oots · 17/02/2020 02:31

Sorry I meant @PixieDustt

PixieRabbit · 17/02/2020 02:33

PixieDustt

Ha, yes travel-sized penis is a good one!

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