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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

3 inches when erect????

Foreplay is fine if you have the time, but sometimes you want a quickie without the foreplay. If a small dick is not hitting the spot, then it never will

Ide end it before its months down the rd and gets harder so to speak

I like penetration, very much.

But I like DP more. Even after many years, I get a thrill just from looking at him.

Perhaps the thrill is what matters, rather than the actual size of the member.

@Fedupwithmyhouse There is no surgery that can make it actually bigger. The only thing that can be done is to cut some of the connective tissue at the base of it, which might make it only seem slightly bigger. Of course there are millions of ads on the internet all promising pills and potions and magic techniques.

Sadly, I read 'be all and end all' as 'bellend'.

Ah well.

DH is quite small - I was shocked when we first had sex but actually it's not THAT small (not three inches which I think is definitely on the unusually small side?) but I suppose it's relative - I've not had that many boyfriends but the ten or so before him were all a bit bigger. I did worry it would affect things but it really hasn't. (And he knows he's not that well endowed, has made the odd joke about it but he's a very relaxed sort of person with no hang ups).

I had one BF who was enormous - he said it had caused problems in the past and it did with us too! He was wide rather than long but it was almost impossible to DTD, and we split up quite soon after (his decision, no idea if that was an issue).

I suppose it depends on how much you feel this may be a problem. I'm not particularly highly sexed and if everything else was OK I don't think it would be a deal-breaker for me, but only you can decide. Such a shame though - and poor chap.....

I’ll be here all week...

Oh really?! @Scott72 with all the things they can do they can’t add on a few extra inches? I’m shocked.

If op did pelvic exercises everyday for years I doubt that would make any difference. It's THREE INCHES so of course she isn't going to feel anything.

Yep, ex had an impotent micropenis. He knew though, so was happy to wear a strap-on. You can get a vibrating hollow strap-on so it feels good for the man, too. www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/vibrating-strap-ons/

Maybe you could tell him you have a kink for the look of them? I think some off them actually look better than a penis. Penises are weird-looking when you think about it. Especially a micropenis.

It wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me.

LOL I saw my stepdads penis when him and my mum were drunk and naked and passed out on the couch and I was confused about what was going on because his willy was so tiny I thought he had nude trousers on and he was all sprawled over my mum on his back so it was right in full view, TINY

But that doesn’t mean it was small when erect.

I’ve also been on the receiving end of one that was far too big in every direction.

In fact when we met up again years after we broke up for a “for old time’s sake” type thing we had to abandon proceedings because it was too big to go in. Which made me wonder what had happened to my nethers in the intervening years - shrunk with age?

But too big is just as much of an elephant in the room as the micro.

A happy medium for me.

ellie56 i have just almost cried laughing at weeny peeny 😂😂

Someone else has already mentioned this but I do wonder if a lot of people on here have watched porn and believe 8 or 9" and above to be the norm. As a man who has been in more men's showers than had hot dinners ( I used to play a lot of football rugby etc) I have seen thousands of penises. That's how I KNOW I'm a bit smaller than most, but 99% are WELL below anything you will see in a porn video. Same as the majority of women do not look like porn stars (thankfully)
I do think that some men (and I know one) who are hung like donkeys believe that because they have a huge dick they don't need to try hard to please. And I think there are plenty of women shallow enough to think that they've had great sex just because their partner is king dong. Good sex is as much about being at one with your partner, being relaxed and having trust.
I do feel sorry for those that are really under endowed however, I'm aware of my erm shortcomings but I know it would be much more difficult with a micropenis.

Thank you all for the replies it's given me a right laugh if nothing else! So I've decided I'm going to try a few different positions see if it helps, if I can fine one position that works for me I'll be happy lol. I don't want this to be a deal breaker for me I really like him so much!

I couldn't care less sex can still be good it's not just about size.

Good sex is as much about being at one with your partner, being relaxed and having trust

@Mansperspective Well said.

Three different men, three different nationalities. One was a walnut whip. One was smaller (and thinner) than my pinkie. The last was half a thumb but at least I could get some clitoral stimulation. Every single one knew he was tiny and apologised... I was kind and reassured each one. Two are married with several kids 20 years on, the other is onto his third trophy wife. Size is definitely important. Few of us want our tonsils tickled via our groin, but equally we want a bit more sensation than having our teeth flossed with invisible thread. Oh, and apparently steroids can have an impact. My DSis rekindled a romance with an ex bf after almost 4 years... in between he embraced the gym culture heavily and competed in body building competitions. She said pencil dxxk was being kind.

So unless adapting your positions or other stimulation works, you’ll eventually resent him.

If he's everything you want in a man you'd be mad to give it up.
Sex is only a small (but important) part of a relationship.
No-one's perfect

You can buy penis extenders/girth enhancers but that would probs require telling him

Just as all penises are different sizes, so are all vaginas. You just can't see vaginas!

I've always had to have the extra large speculum when having a smear as the smaller one just got lost (no kids) and when I had sex with a guy with a small penis I couldn't feel it.

I imagine a woman with a shorter and narrower vagina would suit a smaller man. We're all shapes and sizes down there, just a man is more obvious.

Mansperspective Last reasearch survey it came out as 5.45 inches thats the most common size, longer or shorter then it falls away as expressed as a percentage lenght.

Its also measured when in combat mode as from the top side where it mets the pubic bone the other end the measureing ruler is taken round the end to the tip of the menber, thats its length .

Can't remeber the average girth that is in some was more importasnt as long as its 4 and a half inches it can make up for a lacking in length.

The ones in porn films they just find actors who are well above avergae also the way its photo'ed can make it look bigger that what it actully is..

This comes up as a regular topic. Just waiting now for some bloke to come along containing his new girlfriend has small tits/big tits should he dump her and everyone saying yeah dump her.

When breast size prevents a man from orgasming, you'll have a point. Breast size is not comparable to penis size.

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