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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

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Gwenhwyfar · 17/02/2020 23:13

"At least you can lose some weight what can a guy do?"

Yes, but the main thing men judge women on is their face and if you're ugly you're stuck with it unless you're rich enough for plastic surgery so life is not necessarily easier for women.

EuroMillionsWinner · 17/02/2020 23:16

"At least you can lose some weight what can a guy do?"

That's not her problem to fix. This is female social conditioning at its finest, put up with shit sex that doesn't turn you on because the poor guy has a small willie. Just NO. You're allowed to have whatever dealbreakers you wish, this does not make you a bad person.

Scott72 · 17/02/2020 23:20

Someone else won't mind his tiny tadge
Who? As this thread makes clear, for the almost all women this is a deal breaker.

EuroMillionsWinner · 17/02/2020 23:23

A couple of people have said they don't mind, Scott, so as the saying goes, there's a lid for every teapot. It's not the OP's job to tolerate bad sex to preserve someone else's feelings (nor does she even need to tell him the reason she's ending it is the sex).

UYScuti · 17/02/2020 23:25

There must be some kind of strap-on device which would pleasure the man at the same time as the woman?

Grandmasterflush · 17/02/2020 23:26

NoMoreDickheads
Where there is a will there is a way!
No see your point!

Fedupwithmyhouse · 17/02/2020 23:27

If I could have a one off with my ex with the tiny dick right now I so would. Put myself right in the mood for it Wink

Jigsaw2000 · 18/02/2020 00:05

Whenever i see a man driving a car with a personalised number plate i automatically assume he has a small penis.

You know what they say about assumptions!

DH drives a car with a personalised number plate and he has the biggest penis that I have seen in RL.

According to this online penis size calculator, it's 99.99 percentile and in a room of 1000 guys, 0 would be bigger. Shock

calcsd.netlify.com/

squishedgrapes · 18/02/2020 00:13

That would be a deal breaker for me. I don't agree that a small penis makes a man try harder or that men with big ones are lazy - my ex had a small one and was selfish, especially towards the end of our marriage. He was an entitled arse. The best ex I ever had was with a man that was bigger than average who also had girth. He also tried hard to please.
See all I need is a man with a decent personality, a decent dick, and a smiley face.

squishedgrapes · 18/02/2020 00:14

And in future OP, have a good song and a grope first and you'll know where he's at

KittyTsui · 18/02/2020 00:28

@mumme111 there is hormonal/testosterone and other medical treatments available for micro-penis. See here: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3822343/ and here: emedicine.medscape.com/article/923178-treatment

So there is a window for treatment, but if you are worried about him, now is the time to move on it. My understanding is that treatment is most effective pre-puberty (otherwise tons of men would be illegally getting testosterone gel and applying it their penises to make them larger).

Carouselfish · 18/02/2020 00:29

I had a bf once, French, sexy, lawyer, bookish, romantic...tiny. I talked myself into being able to live with it for all the other good things. At the time it was a hard sell, now I'm older post children, sex isn't the be all and end all for me.

SimonJT · 18/02/2020 07:35

@Jigsaw2000 I wonder how many others will use that link! I’ve put my own details in, quite happy, especially as some people assume that asian men have small ones.

It’s weird how the desired penis size changes, it used to be ideal to have a small penis in some places as it meant you didn’t submit to lust.

@squishedgrapes I don’t agree either, current partner and my first serious partner were very gifted in that area and not at all selfish in the bedroom. My other ex, not so gifted in that area and really really selfish in the bedroom.

CalleighDoodle · 18/02/2020 08:05

have a good song and a grope first

I do love a good song.

Fochit · 18/02/2020 08:39

I would hate to have a DH with a massive one.

Smilebehappy123 · 18/02/2020 08:59

I wish I knew how to tag people in comments some of these have me howling
A micro penis is the worse thing in the world , the comment about asking him to wear a strap on me and hubby laughing our heads off this morning Smile

fedupdotcomlo · 18/02/2020 09:15

@Smilebehappy123 just put the @ sign in and the usernames come up!! Haha I know it's hilarious! It was a serious post aswel but it's had me in stitches!

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Jigsaw2000 · 18/02/2020 10:18

I would hate to have a DH with a massive one.

I'm not complaining. I wasn't that interested in sex before I met DH. I'd get the urge now and again, but that was it. It was a bit of a shock at first but honestly, it reaches the parts that standard models can't reach.

Grandmasterflush · 18/02/2020 10:24

For all the people who find it all hilarious 🤣🤣🤣I only hope you have a son with a 2 in her. You can then no doubt stand around laughing your heads off at him and give him penis extensions for his 28th birthday. Oh what fun!

Mookie81 · 18/02/2020 10:31

For all the people who find it all hilarious 🤣🤣🤣I only hope you have a son with a 2 in her. You can then no doubt stand around laughing your heads off at him and give him penis extensions for his 28th birthday. Oh what fun!

Sounds like someone needs a big old 🍆HmmWink

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 18/02/2020 10:33

If you learn to make the best of it you can enjoy a brilliant sex life and seriously improve your own sexual skills. Or at least that's my experience.

When having sex with a man with a small penis you need to deploy your pelvic floor to the max. Learn to grip. If gripping is difficult then do pelvic floor exercises several times a day until gripping is easy. The exercises produce rapid results. You can produce a sort of ripple effect around his penis which I found made orgasm almost automatic.

You'll find your muscles clenching round his smaller penis is even more enjoyable than sex with a larger one. I used to feel the pleasurable clenching of my vagina around him more than with bigger men because I wasn't being stretched. That little bit of room turns into a plus.

At first I found it worked best lying on our sides facing each other. Later we got more varied.

Expertise in the deployment of your pelvic floor is a great skill to have and increases your capacity for orgasm.

EuroMillionsWinner · 18/02/2020 10:35

Or you can just find someone else with a bigger wanger.

OneForMeToo · 18/02/2020 10:39

Sounds like a lot of effort to fill in the spaces Hmm

I’d stick with a big dick Grin

EuroMillionsWinner · 18/02/2020 10:41

Some of us never have to deploy pelvic floor muscles or work like a dog to enjoy plenty of internal orgasms. Grin

sofato5miles · 18/02/2020 10:57

@Prawnofthepatriarchy good advice

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