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New man small penis

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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

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IndieTara · 17/02/2020 20:54

@macaroniandpizza he sounds like my ex fiancé right down to the snoring

IndieTara · 17/02/2020 20:55

@QueenOfOversharing my ex's was just like that too!

Username109876 · 17/02/2020 20:56

Let's not forget that this might cause depression in some men who have it..

Aridane · 17/02/2020 20:57

The small breast comparison is so far wide of the mark.
There is no equivalent female issue to having a small penis. Women have other issues they worry about but not one directly comparable.

The comparison would be a large and slack vagina resulting in lack of sensation

Avocadohips · 17/02/2020 20:59

So many of the Google images are of pigs in blankets and sausage rolls! 😱🤣🤣🤣

the guy I lost my virginity to put me off eating cocktail sausages for years

Fedupwithmyhouse · 17/02/2020 21:03

Holy shit I just googled it too and am floored at some of the pictures of grown men. Poor poor souls.

The guy I was with I never really saw it soft before sex as he seemed to always be hard when with me (it’s tough being me) but after sex it was about 1.5 inches.

NoMoreDickheads · 17/02/2020 21:07

he seemed to always be hard when with me (it’s tough being me)

@Fedupwithmyhouse Grin Grin Grin

Chinks123 · 17/02/2020 21:16

@Smilebehappy123 I’ve just woken the baby laughing at your comment Grin Tinned mushroom had me in tears.
It is a very accurate description of a man I used to date. For the women worried about their sons; I would have been okay with it as I loved him but ironically he turned out to be a huge dick.

Dp is around 6 inches and always asks if he’s small and makes jokes about having a small one, apparently his best friends is huge and it’s given him a bit of a complex.

TrixieTheWhore · 17/02/2020 21:18

Also just googled. Shock

Blimey. I've seen a couple of small ones but I think I've mostly been very lucky, average I've been with it probably about 6", and DFiancee is about 8-9".

Honestly, how do they even get it in? I can't see how PIV would even be possible looking at the photos.

Fochit · 17/02/2020 21:32

This thread is horrid

SummerPavillion · 17/02/2020 21:36

Am actually relived by this thread how many women don't mind (I suspect ds1 is going to be on the small side). It's not horrid at all.

We all suit different things. I appreciate a medium to large one, xh was slightly small and when I got very "in the mood I stopped being able to feel it, honestly I sometimes had to hold back the tears.

We need to be honest with ourselves at the start of a relationship. Sex is very important to most of us.

dwum · 17/02/2020 22:05

I googled and ended up looking at Donald Trump statues!

PantsToThis · 17/02/2020 22:08

As the saying goes, "there's a lid for every teapot". Sounds like he's not yours, so move on. No doubt he will be someone's perfect fit!
No need to feel bad about being shallow, you're just not compatible sexually.

Grandmasterflush · 17/02/2020 22:11

The truth is a three inches he won’t be anyone’s fit.

mumme111 · 17/02/2020 22:19

My son has a micro penis and this post makes me so sad and worried for him x he sees no problem with it he's innocent (11) but since reading this post I'm worried he bc will get left behind x

inicecoldblood · 17/02/2020 22:21

People can't help what they like and unfortunately not feeling fulfilled sexually because a man has a small penis is one of them things.

Fochit · 17/02/2020 22:30

At least your son won’t be stuck with anyone shallow mumme111 💐

mamato3lads · 17/02/2020 22:35

@V1Rotate

Pencil Penis Grin

Made me laugh out loud and brought back some rather forgotten memories Confused

lilgreen · 17/02/2020 22:36

Are people saying that lesbians don’t enjoy a satisfying sex life? A penis does not equal good sex.

Grandmasterflush · 17/02/2020 22:44

Don’t lesbians use substitutes though , strap ons dildos etc? No penetration at all?

lilgreen · 17/02/2020 22:50

Well I’m guessing they don’t all. A man with a very small penis can use one too.

AskEvans · 17/02/2020 22:55

Whenever i see a man driving a car with a personalised number plate i automatically assume he has a small penis.

Grandmasterflush · 17/02/2020 23:02

I don’t think that will wash TBH with most women. I think on another thread about ED it was put that what’s the point in having a man if he has to use a dildo. I can do that on my own.

EuroMillionsWinner · 17/02/2020 23:09

Honestly, you don't owe anyone a relationship. You are allowed to set whatever parameters you want and end things for whatever reason. I wouldn't have thought twice about ending it with him. And no, wouldn't be at all bothered if he did the same, he doesn't owe me a relationship, either. Life is way too short for having to work hard at sex especially so early on in a relationship and having to stick to one position or tie yourself in knots trying to get off. Hell, you can do that with your hands a lot faster and easier. You should be ripping each other's clothes off at this stage. Someone else won't mind his tiny tadge but if you do it doesn't make you evil incarnate.

NoMoreDickheads · 17/02/2020 23:12

@Grandmasterflush you can't easily properly use a strap on on yourself complete with the required shafting motion to the same extent.. Smile You'd have to be in two places at once :)

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