New man small penis

[fedupdotcomlo]

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

@Connnie222

Jeez buy yourself a flipping rabbit ...

Surprising amount of women here had men with a micro penis especially given that 10cm (3.9") is only around 3% of the population and 3" is 1% or less.

Having had a colourful time at university I've seen a few erect penises and they've been, unsurprisingly, average.

Isn't statistics brilliant?

OP - I had one once and he was also oblivious! In fact he loved his willy so much and I think he even gave it a name (can't remember it...he named his balls too)! Tried all the positioning tricks but nothing worked. He had a great time though. I often think I had a lucky escape from his teeny tiny. The next willy that came along was more interesting.
But, I would see how it goes with this guy - you never know he could be a really great guy, and sometimes that's all that matters. Well, almost.

10% of the men I've had sex with had very small (as in 'I cant feel it') penises.
For me a large enough dick is a necessary but not sufficient condition for satisfying sex

Oh no...I had once boyfriend ages ago who was so small. It got so bad that I actually asked him when he will start and he said he just finished!
Very disappointed.

There is a woman about to reject a man because his curtains weren’t fully open when she visited.

Pleeeaasse tell me this is a euphemism. 😁

What is normal though ??

DH has what I would call a big dick and very thick.doesnt look impressive when flaccid but -oh my!- when erect
...I think girth plays a big part here too, not just length....?

But I lack experience/variety so am interested to know what "big" is in normal womens books ?

@mamato3lads girth is more important.

I cant really be arsed with sex these days but I can only remember one man who was too large, and it was more a case of too long.
It must be difficult for men with extremely small ones:(

Well I'm seeing him soon so I'm going to try and get round it lol. I'll post back with an update!

@lots33

Up until recently the best sex I had ever had was with a man with a small penis who had trouble getting and staying erect. He was, quite simply, the best at oral sex and other ways - the first person to give me multiple orgasms. He was a lovely man and a great lover. I broke up with him for reasons that were nothing to do with his penis.

My long term boyfriend before him had a big penis... but I had faked orgasms with him for most of our relationship. He wasn't interested in any foreplay beyond enough to get me wet enough to enter.

Another lover couldn't keep it up long enough to penetrate very long, because of watching too much porn, but we had an amazing sex life, he was brilliant with his hands!

Current boyfriend I haven't had sex with yet, but he's worried about the opposite problem - he's been too big for people before, so he is quite unconfident for that reason. I've done enough with him to be confident that even if worst case scenario we can't enjoy PIV sex, I'm going to be one happy lady, he's a very good and generous lover.

What I'm trying to say is that whilst penis size does matter, the men who have been wonderful lovers to me have been various sizes and included small penises and penises that don't work very well. What they all had in common was an awareness that female sexuality often wasn't all about penetration and they all cared about giving women pleasure. If you teach your son to be kind and considerate to his girlfriends (I'm talking in general) and, well everybody in life, and he translates that into the sack, then I'm genuinely certain that he won't have a problem being sexually compatible with somebody.

I think the bigger problem for coming off age teenagers is porn. It's not educational, it's created for male pleasure not women, and more extreme stuff is taken as normal. Keep your kids grounded and away from that stuff, as long as possible, and let them know it's nowhere near what they could and should be doing and expecting in real life.

I don't see why women can't discuss these things without someone making out it's shallow and bitchy. My experience: a really nice guy with a 3 inch one ( not sure if that's a micro penis) He was very experienced and foreplay was good.
Another guy, very big ( 8 1/2 inches and thick) seemed to think he didn't even have to move and made no effort at all, zero foreplay
I know which I preferred!

Surprising amount of women here had men with a micro penis especially given that 10cm (3.9") is only around 3% of the population and 3" is 1% or less.

Well it's a self-selecting sample. The thread title will probably draw women who have had that experience. Plus, each man will likely have had sex with multiple women, so you would expect more than 3% of women to have experienced a man in the lower 3% of the male population (assuming numbers of men and women to be roughly equal).

@Vanhi selection bias! 😂

According to an online source:

About 1.5 in 10,000 males has a micropenis.

So yeah, it's rare. I actually googled images as wanted to know how micro was micro

"There is a woman about to reject a man because his curtains weren’t fully open when she visited.

Pleeeaasse tell me this is a euphemism. 😁"

No! To be fair, there were other problems too - his rug wasn't straight - again not a euphemism.

Can I also just exclaim on this thread what in the name of all things holy is the deal with the massive difference in how much penises grow or don't grow from flacid to erect?!

I had never met a grower until in the last two years, prior to that they had all been fairly what you see is what you get. But my more recent experiences.... YIKES those things can get unrecognisable!! 🤣

@fedupdotcomlo good for you. He seems to be worth a good crack.

(Ps: I love vibrating cock rings. Maybe ask him to wear that?)

@Connie222

Sad but true story - I’ve only had one orgasm in my life and it was while shagging a man with a micro penis. Just hit the right spot I guess! He dumped me after so ever got to have one again! 20 fucking years ago now!

Oh my goodness, this thread has had me in hysterics but this makes me really sad! Do you mean you only had one orgasm with someone or one orgasm ever???

Sorry I don't know how to do the quote thing

I’d say size matters especially if you want a good hard rummage every so often as well as gentle sex.

Can’t say I’ve ever seen one smaller that 5” and I got around a bit as a teenager. Effort wise I’ve found big and small can be both as lacking but at lest big can hit the sides for a hard bang when required.

Try going on top or legs of shoulders but apart from that I don’t think there is much else without asking him to strap up which still isn’t the same.

@kirksutherland - one ever. Not through lack of trying!

Had a small pencil penis once. Also he had ED.
He did make sure I was taken care of but I like PIV.
Tried to give him head but it was like having a floppy sausage in my mouth.

I think it's not so bad if they know and make up for it in other ways but long term it's not for me.

I’ve loved this thread.

I’ve just measured DH (genuinely) and he’s around 7” and it’s perfect. Literally perfect for me.

I’ve had smaller and it’s been OK but there’s nothing worse than that awful sloppy feeling that a small, thin penis brings.

My fiance is well let's say very large. My exh was probably 4.5 inches and he wasn't the best but he didn't try either plus he struggled to orgasm so it went on for far too long. My fiance is very good in bed although we have to be careful with positioning because it can hurt. He is good because he listens to me and knows what I like. He isn't selfish. A friend ages ago said her partner had a small penis but he was so unselfish and good with foreplay it was no issue.