oh mcd if anyone is entitled to be feeling hormonal right now its you! If it's any consolation, I don't know your H, but with me anyway, 2nd baby didn't get any prenatal attention anyway. For 1st he came to antenatal classes, did some shopping, but for 2nd he didn't even come to all the scans, let alone show any interest whatsoever in prams, and didn't attend any antenatal class, an I wasn't the only one, all the women who were on their 2nd, or more baby came alone. It seems the men do it once then that's it. I know obviously it hurts, but don't compare to how he/it was for your dd because it would certainly be very different 2nd time round anyway, even if the circumstances were far happier.
And as for dd, well, ultimately she does know you love here, and you are after all the one's who is the constant, who is there for her. She knows that. Tears are normal. So are fights. Bloody hell, you want to see me possessed ds3 this am.
sp I'm so glad things are going really well for you, you sound glowing. Wherabouts are you living now? My dh used to work in Mayfair.
Tanee, thanks, actually the counselling did go well. I don't think she put in so much useful, erm, input, but it was good to talk, She did make a couple of useful points. But for 1 hour they were talking about Italy, and how the kids were going to cope and blah blah blah and the whole time I wanted to scream how am I going to bloody cope, worrying he's off nobbing every bit of skirt. I go insane every time he goes out for a beer, and that's just say 4 hours, suddenly I'll be coping with 5 days separation! So I pointed this out and dh later laughed that I waited till nearly the end then threw a few handgranades into the room. He's even said he thinks it'd be good to go back
Sp the plan is he goes for 6 months while we remain here, then we re evaluate. It does make sense is every way really, he will be working long hours and travelling a lot so he wouldn't be around much anway. Essentially I don't want to go at all, so we'l see. The commute does have lots of advantages, but obv. lots of disadvantages too. We'll just have to see how it pans out I suppose.
And finally mil, she has now got a UTI, but they can't find any veins to put a line in for AB's. They are managing to get some in, but they are not working. We were told on Wednesday to 'prepare for the worst'. Yet sil went yesterday and says she looks the same as usual so confused. But we have many times come to the point we've thought 'this is it' and somehow she's holding on.
We have a lovely warm sunny day here, so I hope some of the happy warm glow falls on everybody today.