@tinytinathy way to skew the discussion. I'm talking about child abuse fantasies, not images. I'm saying any normal person would be a tad put off by certain fantasies. I'm saying fantasies say something, they matter, and it's ok to be put off your partner if their fantasies are abusive.
How would you know what this prospective partner was fantasising about if there weren't any images?
That said, I don't think I said people couldn't have opinions about things. I was just presenting my POV (that's it's not indicative of some major dysfunction).
There are plenty of things I'd judge someone negatively for enjoying. I just accept it's not some major moral failing on their part.
What's this "professional gangbang" chat? How do you know how professional it is? Is there a licensing system? Association of Professional Gangbangers?
There are plenty of professional associations and bodies associated with pornography.
Tiny do you have skin in the "professional" porn "business". Perhaps you are a consumer of porn or partnered with someone who is.
I'm not. I'm also not apologising for anything. It's just an interesting subject to me. I'm not expecting to change minds, I'm just getting some insight into how people thing about these things.
1) Are at least some of the sequences of "gang bangs" around the internet in fact footage of real gang bangs? Almost certainly. I would not want to be around any man who watched this shit, knowing that he could as likely be wanking to footage of a real rape as to "excellent method acting" or however the apologists want to dress it up.
I have no doubt you could find footage of genuine gang bangs. A gang bang taking place in porn is still a gang bang. If you're talking about rape, I'm sure you can find that too, but you'd probably have to be really looking for it because it's not the easily accessible stuff.