Hi Ladies
Had a thread a little while back but figured I’d join in here. Boyfriend of almost 3 years (who i’d lived with for a year and a half). Sat me down and dumped me out of the blue almost a month ago now. Said we’d been growing apart and he wasn’t sure how he felt about me anymore, found coming home boring and wasn’t excited to see me anymore. Two days later he gets in touch saying he’s made a horrible mistake, that everything is all his fault, that he stopped putting effort into the relationship and that he wants to give it a serous go again.
As I was still trying to find somewhere new to live, I agreed to try, only for him to turn around 2 days into ‘trying again’ and tell me that he had felt sad all day because he thought he was just going to break my heart all over again and that he wasn’t sure if he could recover his feelings. I asked him if s life of coming home to me every night would be unfulfilling and he answered ‘Yes’ without a second of hesitation. Says he cares deeply for me and that spending time with me makes him very happy and always has done but it’s over.
We’ve had to live in the house for the last month whilst waiting to move out which has been brutally hard. Going to get the keys for my place now to move in tomorrow and I should be excited (the house is lovely) but I cried on the train all the way there after seeing him this morning and discussing cancelling the internet and council tax!
It’s hard because it’s not like we hate each other or have fallen out or been arseholes (well him a little, what with fucking me about.) I figured I’d be feeling better but frankly I still feel awful.
Hugs and support to everyone else here.