Hi everyone, I am 4 weeks in after leaving an abuser. He would however not class himself one. He is now stalking me and I am worried. He is very manipulative and convincing. I miss him. He is driving past locations where he knows I will be, and stopping to talk to me, however I tell him that I have nothing to say. He drove past my work, and I unblocked him to ask why only for him to send a pic of him sat on his sofa at home, and today was at the gym at the same time as me and came over wanting closure and just sat on the floor in front of me wanting to talk about our relationship, and he then he confessed to having been at my work.
It was really awkward and uncomfortable. People were looking. I really don't know what to do. Told the police about the abuse several times, and was told that a lot of women would not feel smothered when I explained that he lives his life through me. Goes everywhere where I go and I don't have any alone time without him. So I won't contact the police as they haven't got a clue. And this was a woman constable. So yeah, I am joining this fab club if I may so I can stay away. This is the fifth time I leave him. And I want to stay away.