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Has my boyfriend unblocked his ex?

137 replies

hastala · 18/09/2019 17:23

Ok I might sound crazy but here goes.
In the search bar on Facebook when I typed my boyfriends name plus his ex's name nothing came up.
Now when I put his name and his ex's name all posts from years ago show up that she wrote on his wall.
Does this mean he's unblocked her?

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Bluntness100 · 18/09/2019 17:25

I don't know but why are you repeatedly doing this? Confused

AmIThough · 18/09/2019 17:26

No because the posts will still be on his wall if you don't have her blocked.

You do sound crazy though. Wtf?

coconuttelegraph · 18/09/2019 17:27

Nobody can answer that, I don't know exactly what you mean but how would who a 3rd party has blocked affect what you see?

SparklyMagpie · 18/09/2019 17:28

Fucking hell, if you're having to do this you shouldn't be in a relationship

Wildorchidz · 18/09/2019 17:30

Yes you do sound crazy.

Itsarainyday555 · 18/09/2019 17:33

Unless you're under the age of 14 you need to stop doing this and get a grip.

hastala · 18/09/2019 17:39

It's just strange how before I couldn't see it and now I can all of a sudden

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Wildorchidz · 18/09/2019 17:40

Does it matter???

ashtrayheart · 18/09/2019 17:41

Yes maybe he has unblocked her. So what now?

JustMe9 · 18/09/2019 17:48

No. It sounds like SHE unblocked YOU. You seeing her posts on FB has nothing to do with your BF

hastala · 18/09/2019 17:55

She deffo hadn't blocked me as I could always see her profile just not the posts she had posted on his wall.

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Notcoolmum · 18/09/2019 17:58

Why are you doing this. And why does it matter?

hastala · 18/09/2019 17:59

Well if he's unblocked her there's clearly a reason behind it.

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Newday1 · 18/09/2019 18:07

Omg your relationship isn't healthy

hastala · 18/09/2019 18:14

So do you think he hasn't unblocked her ?
Am I being paranoid?

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Notcoolmum · 18/09/2019 18:15

Why do you care and why are you looking? What is really going on?

thatwasMauijustmessingaround · 18/09/2019 18:19

Facebook does this kind of thing regularly. I wouldn't worry about it. I use Facebook for my work quite a lot and there's always inconsistencies like this. Sometimes pages will show up when I try and tag them, sometimes they won't for example.

If you used your own account, it wouldn't make an ounce of difference whether your BF or his ex have each other blocked. It'd never show on your search.

But I will agree with PP that this kind of behaviour is strange and shows your relationship is very unhealthy (trust issues to say the least)

hastala · 18/09/2019 18:25

I am worrying now.
I've got this knot in my stomach
Something just doesn't feel right

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SweetAsSpice · 18/09/2019 18:26

Step away from Facebook. Fuck!

BringMeAGinandTonic · 18/09/2019 18:28

Has he given reason to not believe him in the past? Is that why you're looking?

Bluntness100 · 18/09/2019 18:30

Op. If you keep searching your partner and his ex, then yeah, something is very wrong indeed. Very wrong. Why would you even do that?

hastala · 18/09/2019 18:31

No they were just together years and we haven't been together long so I'm paranoid.

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Bluntness100 · 18/09/2019 18:32

You're jealous?

31RueCambon75001 · 18/09/2019 18:34

Maybe she has unblocked you.

31RueCambon75001 · 18/09/2019 18:37

He must have changed the settings op.

Maybe before, when they were together, he had her posts customised so only he would able to see them and now he has removed customised settings.

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