C and the (non-existent) FB messages

[JaysusWept]

Morning all.
Can't believe the last thread filled up!
Thanks so much to everyone for all of your responses and your support. It really was invaluable to me.

According to K, M and D, they've had no response from C to their messages asking her to explain what has gone on and why she's been lying. She's seen the messages, but hasn't replied to any of them. I ended up muting my WA chat last night because it was buzzing constantly Did make me wonder if the chat I was exluded from was as busy...

L has told M that she'd believed C, can't believe she would lie about something as serious as this (nothing about not believing I would do such a thing!) and that she needs to hear what C has to say about it. She hasn't attempted to contact me, and I don't want her to. That friendship is over.

I'm wondering what C will come back with now. Part of me thinks she'll just freeze K, M and D out and not even bother to give an explanation, because how could she explain it?
I'm just so relieved that that's it now - they know I wasn't lying. Although I intend to stay friends with K, M and D, I think my friendship with them will cool slightly. They didn't support me when I needed it, and from their responses/reactions, I'm guessing that they were similarly as gossipy and 'excited' with C and L when this was all going on. I'd hoped they were trying not to take sides, etc - but the way they seem to be almost revelling in this now, with the amount of messaging and speculation - I'm guessing they were speculating about me this way?
It's left a bad taste in my mouth.

Oh OP. What awful women.

We all believe you. Enjoy your wine, fuck the haterz man 😁

@combatbarbie this isn’t a game FFS

I am gutted for you, OP. And your poor DD. Save this thread and any shit for her when she is older, you show her how well you handled this and tell her she can do the same. It will also show her how not to treat people (though I doubt she'll need that having you around)

@expo and @BykerBykerOoh I love both your posts, albeit they are at opposite ends of the "bloody brilliant" spectrum

Jeez.....

Can you check yourself in to the poshest romantic hotel in the area. Give them all something to talk about. Utter twats.

As much as I never even post much personal stuff on fb (mainly stick to funny photos and news articles!)......in this very unfair and utterly ridiculous I think I would have to post something to defend myself.
You've tried dignified dignity which got you nowhere. Then you've tried speaking some home truths to K M and D which obviously hasn't sunk in with them at all. You've done everything right in this OP and still they 'check in' for cocktails with Psycho C.

Fuck strangers interrogating your EX DH
Fuck silence
Fuck them all.

And tag Cs husband with you....just for shits and giggles 😁

*dignified dignity = dignified silence.

Don't post anything. Stay dignified. You seem like such a lovely person.

I know it doesn't make it any less painful however try to take heart from the fact that all of these nasty bitches have lost a far nicer friend than the ones you have lost.

Hi OP. Have read this from the beginning and first and foremost want to say you have handled yourself with such dignity and you seem like a lovely person. More fool them for not realising what a great friend you are.

K’s check in on Facebook is a blatant fuck you to you and absolutely unnecessary. As for C, she may think she had won with her harem happily sitting round the cauldron with her but they are just there for the gossip and the drama. Not to be supportive friends. You are better off out if it. It is however a shame for your daughter.

I am sure from all the supportive posts you have received that most Mumsnetters would scoop you up as a friend if we all lived close enough without a moments thought.

Take some comfort from the knowledge that these are a group of nasty, vindictive, bullying mean girls that you stood up to with class. And they will select a new victim in the not too distant future I would imagine. Good luck

OP, I'm so sorry that you are having all this heaped on you, and your dd too.

I still have a feeling that the DH has been having a fling with someone. And as we know, it isn't the OP.

So who is it?

I still have a feeling that the DH has been having a fling with someone. And as we know, it isn't the OP.So who is it?

Imagine if it was L.

If C's DH has been hiding his sausage elsewhere, I would rather bet on K's bap....

I said they were all a bunch of bitches in the last thread and I stand by it. So angry for you

Get together with some mumsnetters and have a proper night out. Not a sad 'check in' at a bitchfest. Pathetic immature tossers.

Ok go to expo's party!!

Any chance of adding ALL OF US onto the WhatsApp group?

• Derbee Any chance of adding ALL OF US onto the WhatsApp group?* Oh my god. Epic

Omg WhatsApp meets Mumsnet

I've been lurking and reading both threads in utter shock.
@BringTheBounceBack this is the best idea.
@Jaysus consider me taggable in all your new Facebook events, you must display a whole new curious life, after all you do have 1,400+ friends supporting you, that beats the lunatic with her 5 who are only in it for the drama and gossip!!

@Derbee amazing idea 😂

I’m cringing at the check in.
They deserve each other

Stay classy OP

We should all check in at C's

Feel free to add me to your whatsapp haha

@MarieIVanArkleStinks very interested in your Susan Forward recommendation, absolutely love the examples you give which would be perfect to support Dd through a difficult house share in her final uni year but when I google her publications I can't decide which book to choose.

Could you specify further.

Sorry to derail @JaysusWept please add me to the WhatsApp group.