@ginmel I have tests all the time tbh, I’ve been pretty paranoid about it for years due to 3 sexual assaults it just gives me peace of mind. With regards to condoms, tbh, that’s not a him thing – I am the sort of person to stop using them….I hate them. And that is how the story of how I fell pregnant with DS whilst at university. You’d think I would learn. I also am comfortable enough with him not to use them. With a different partner, who knows I might have insisted on using them for longer. Not very responsible of me I guess!
@lifegoes Well the story behind London, is that whilst we were together on Thursday he talked about how his dad was being a pain and making him drive up north only to drive back down so we talked about the best way to deal with it and it resulted in his dad sulking so he didn’t go on the Friday like he was supposed to, came to mine instead, I said he should still go to London on the Saturday to help his sister and maybe his dad would be civil. Thus he left early.
And yeah, I didn’t expect to wake up with him next to me on Friday, I thought he'd come in shout for me but that’s because I thought I’d wake up from my nap earlier and it was still a nice surprise to wake up to a cuddle.
I think it has moved fairly quickly but maybe sometimes that’s okay. We’ve gelled fairly quickly, we’re both oddballs. But there is still boundaries and emotional barriers in place which we both know are there. For me, 3 weeks of limited "touching" was slow for me. When I was at uni, I was straight in bed. I know 3 weeks isn't long but it really was for me! I was nervous all the time and it took a while for me to relax because it was all strange and new to me. We're both reasonably open even if we don't necessarily have conversations about how we're feeling. He's quite expressive and easy to read, I wasn't to start with but he says he can understand what's going through my head now as my eyes say a lot even if my body doesn't. Honestly I couldn't even hug him for 3 weeks, and when I managed to I had to ask for a hug. He just didn't want to hug me if I wasn't receptive. And now he knows I am, and I go to him now. But thats expected. No kissing on the first date for me.
Kidney infection, need to phone doctors tomorrow to check there is nothing else in the results. I used to get them a lot when I was younger but honestly I don’t think I slept with anyone who wasn’t well endowed. I’m definitely allergic to spermicide, that was checked when I was younger. I might get some of the recommended condoms, I just need to check his drawer for the size hahah
@Savoretti Back in the day cranberry juice sorted me out. Nowadays nothing does, tesco cystitis relief helped a little bit this one was bad and took hold so I should have gone to the GP on day 2, not day 5 haha. And to echo @lifegoes, lube helps as I discovered. I just…erm never use it….no requirement. But I probably will use it, because its fun 😊
@unimpressorofcocks historically I didn’t because I was naïve. But I am glad I did with Mr Cactus