Humiliated by dh in middle of Costco

[Mummy20192]

I feel humiliated and broken... went out shopping with Dds and dh to Costco. Heaving with ppl. We qued up to pay for shopping, when dh asked to return trolley. On my way back with dds after putting trolley back, we were stopped by a promotional lady sampling eczema creams.. youngest dd suffers from horrendous eczema so we stopped to sample a bit of cream.. we were away maybe for 5 min tops... my phone was on silent so didn’t hear dhs missed calls.

He saw us standing and started shouting top of his lungs do my wallet with my Costco cards, I was shocked everyone stopped and stared at me.. I was like “I’m sorry I’m coming” he blasted back “well answer your phone”.

I was so embarrassed, everyone close by stopped at stared at me being screamed at.. the lady who was showing the sample was so embarrassed, she apologised. I have never been humiliated so badly in my life.

He said sorry for shouting, but I’m heartbroken and this infront of the dds.

I honestly think people who have become fixated on proving that they see the cynical side to everything as if it is definite proof... to be people who are going through a reaction phase out of anger to something from the past and actually need therapy.

Humans have capacity to be all sorts. But you can’t know for sure which sort you are dealing with, from one encounter. Based on connecting the dots with something someone else did with a totally different context.

Humans do similar things for different reasons usually. People’s experiences are different.

Your job is to be aware that you can’t judge someone actions as extremely innocent or not innocent unless you have some facts. That’s not possible on a forum unless you dig through someone’s username and found blatant lies or anything.

Our job is to assume people come here for support.. we don’t need to offer a judgement about someone being a victim or a villain if there’s isn’t enough facts. But u can’t go wrong with treating someone like they’re human and validating their human nature and feelings. Perhaps guide their thoughts to a more productive pattern so they can solve their own issues...

Ask questions without accusations in case you can help more..

We have become a society that lacks empathy and instead only projects our understanding unto others. That’s a shame.

Just read this thread... so shocked as Relationships board never used to be bitchy what's happening?

I haven't read the whole thread but I recall a recent thread about whether it's acceptable to be shouted at in a relationship and the majority of posters said it wasn't

Yet in public it's perfectly fine because hubby dear got abit stressed?

OP, I hope you can recognise that this thread is just full of people who get a kick from putting others down.

Wrong thread