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Break up support thread 2

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Jonsnowsghost · 21/08/2019 21:16

Carrying on the supportive previous thread that ran out of space!
@herbsmokedchicken definitely that, although I wouldn't as I'm not a cheat....

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herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 13:19

I would have put “just the once” or something

Jonsnowsghost · 23/08/2019 13:23

Ha ha who wouldn't love a Jane McDonald cd 😅 he could have said thanks (for the happy birthday) but I guess you're right, he probably didnt know what to say back! He's been on social media quite a lot today, maybe what he's doing isn't that exciting 😅😅 - not that I'm stalking....

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herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 13:25

It’s just so weird isn’t it, to think their lives are carrying on? And so is mine I guess but I just want him back.

I would certainly say I feel better but I’m not ok, I want him.

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 13:26
herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 13:26

That’s a YouTube video not a picture, it doesn’t look obvious on my phone

Greysmanicfan41 · 23/08/2019 13:34

Worst thing is I have to see him socialise a lot as he part of same meet up group as I am, and we both members!

It's hard as he so out going socially and popular to point he gets invited out more than me!

Bluebird99 · 23/08/2019 14:07

I was thinking the same. Do they just end it and carry on as though we didn’t exist? I just don’t want to do anything or speak to anyone Sad

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 14:09

Have landed now, I think he is in this city so very very slim chance I’ll see him on my way out as he will he heading in but I doubt it, will have my peepers going in case tho

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 14:14

Didn’t see him but didn’t really think I would, doubt he’s even left yet

Greysmanicfan41 · 23/08/2019 15:09

I got a app which I put 30 days so no texting or contact - every time I mess up its starts again! For me it's 3 months now! And I'm still SM stalking!

Bluebird99 · 23/08/2019 15:18

I think it’s hard not to isn’t it?! Mine doesn’t have any SM and I’m blocked so don’t know a thing!

TinselAndKnickers · 23/08/2019 15:52

Ughhhhh having a better day today I suppose but still feeling like I want him to come back. One of these days I'll stop being silly.

Bluebird99 · 23/08/2019 16:27

I miss my guy so much Sad
He said we’ll stay friends and we’re bound to see eachother as we live in such a small place.
Should I say I’m fine if/when I see him or tell him I’m sad?

TinselAndKnickers · 23/08/2019 16:50

You're fine!!!! You've been doing loads and have exciting things happening soon Grin

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 18:19

Few things gone wrong on our holiday, nothing major but enough to make me want to text him and then feel sad

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 18:27

Saw a guy who looked a bit like him holding hands with his gf Sad

Mumcomehere · 23/08/2019 18:47

My update, he wants me back, I held out girls, told him no way, he fucked us over, he needs to deal it, he was pissed off (I felt and looked powerful) :)

TinselAndKnickers · 23/08/2019 18:49

No way!!! Well done you're so strong.

I actually need to talk to him soon because I'm going fucking insane, I feel sick without him. I'm not going to text first but god I miss him

Mumcomehere · 23/08/2019 18:55

I know I made the right choice, as much as it was breaking me inside, I wasnt going to give him the benefit of running back in his arms.

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 18:55

Well done! Must have been so hard but it’s the right choice!

tinsel I know how hard it is but I’d honestly try to resist, we need to learn to live without them, go back to before we knew them, we existed just fine.

TinselAndKnickers · 23/08/2019 19:00

I can live without him, I know that, I'm absolutely okay with that. I just don't want to Sad I've typed out so many draft texts in my notes app. Won't send any. But really fucking miss him now. It's KILLING me to not know what he's doing

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 19:01

Yeah I know what you mean, hard to believe one day I may not even think of him cos right now I think of him all the time.

herbsmokedchicken · 23/08/2019 19:02

Reasonably confident mine is lying on his bed watching TV but I’m not there watching TV with him Sad not that I would be cos I’m away but still.

Mumcomehere · 23/08/2019 20:45

I've recieved a message "you've got someone knew havent you? How did you meet"

My answer - if I have, then it's no concern and none of your business, you did the dirty on me, you cheated, you already lost me when that happened!

I'm still staying strong

Mumcomehere · 23/08/2019 20:45

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