Shower sex advice

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I've been seeing a man for a few months now and I've never been sexually adventurous at all, he got in the shower with me last night but it wasn't great. It was difficult to do. Does anyone have any advice on this? Any other tips for the sexually naive are most definitely welcomed

Shower sex is great! Give him a blowjob while he’s under the water, then stand up, lift your leg and let him fuck you from behind.
Do not listen to these boring women who thing it’s nothing- it’s definitely a way to give him a great orgasm.

booksareforkids19 😂 cool story bro

I don't mind shower sex. It's definitely better in a larger cubicle though!

booksareforkids19: yeah, cos it’s all about the man’s pleasure, innit? Doesn’t matter whether it’s uncomfortable for the woman or she is getting nothing out of it whatsoever.

Oh well, not that this situation applies to you in your actual life, so run along and get back to your porn watching, there’s a good boy.

Oh and on the off chance that you’re a woman, I looked at some of your other advicr. On a thread by a woman who had been raped by her husband you wrote this:

i strongly believe that in a healthy relationship, pushing for sex or teasingly saying ‘no’ is fun and a turn on.

Please don’t give advice on here about sex again. You have a warped view of a healthy relationship.

@CurlyhairedAssassin 👍👍👏👏

@CurlyhairedAssassin
You sound like you’d be wonderful to be around. Jeez. This OP was asking for advice- many were negative about adventurous sex. I was only giving my input.
And I am a woman. About my last comment, I was referring to a healthy relationship. I’m so sick of hearing about people staying in abusive relationships.
Being in a loving relationship is about compromise. I love giving pleasure and receiving it. If the pair are not compatible, then it’s time to end the relationship.

I don't think I'm particularly adventurous but have enjoyed sex in a bath. A couple of times (when I was young), a guy suggested it in the toilet - at work!!! Of course I said no, I was horrified. Looking back though, the suggestion strikes me as funny. He didn't push it (no pun intended).

Books: yeah but adventurous sex and uncomfortable sex are two completely different things, you do see that? I’m sure we’ve all been adventurous but most adult women would not be prepared to put their partner’s sexual wants far above their own comfort, desire or willingness. Sex is about equal enjoyment, not the enjoyment of one to the detriment of the other.

But yeah, according to you, any woman that wants to be comfortable during sex is “boring”.

And yes, re your “advice” on the other marital rape thread, there is no healthy adult sexual relationship where “pushing for sex” or “teasingly saying no” is “fun or a turn on”.

I find your attitude a disgrace to be honest, and feel sorry for you that you don’t understand what a healthy sexual relationship looks like. You think you do, but you’re far from it.

-CurlyHair- I’m a very sexual person- sex is a huge part of a healthy relationship, in my opinion. Saying that, I believe that if a couple are incompatible in the bedroom, they should not stay together. Sexual chemistry is important. I’m not going to stay with a guy who doesn’t want to go down on me or who doesn’t want to have sex as much as I do.
At the same time- I get joy from pleasing a guy. I love giving blowjobs, I love when my man cums quick, I love turning him on and doing positions that he loves. I get orgasms from pleasuring him and getting him off. At the same time, he gets orgasms from pleasuring me and making me cum. A great healthy couple achieve this without work or worrying about the other’s orgasm.
This is only from my view. I know there are others who aren’t as sexual as me.
Obviously we’re going to disagree. I love sex. My main goal is to give my man an orgasm even if I don’t get one. I could be mad at him, sad, tired, annoyed, but I will always want to fuck my guy and make him cum so he’s happy and gets good sleep.

@booksareforkids19. Can I marry you....😁

@hadthesnip2 ha! Only if you agree to forgo our wedding and spend the money on a nice fun vacation, and, of course, have shower sex with me! 😋

hadthesnip2 really?
booksareforkids Sorry but you sound like a 17 year old boy. I’ve been in a few relationships and yes mutual pleasure is the the way it should be.. you would happily have sex with your OH if you’re mad at him because you care that he has a good nights sleep? You really don’t sound like a grown woman

Okpedro- I’m actually a 32 yr old gal. I have a very satisfying relationship with my man. We understand each other, we love each other, we have fun times together, we are both very sexual- so when I say that I like to please my man, I mean it. Sure he can upset me, or I can have a bad day at work, or we can both be tired, or I’m sick- I still desire him and want him.
I don’t know if it applies to every man, but my boyfriend falls asleep very quickly after a good fuck. He works hard, he deserves that love.

I just can’t take you seriously booksareforkids God loves a trier though...

Fuck off brain

OkPedro- everyone’s different. Don’t know what else to say. I can only be honest about myself and try to give others my perspective when it comes to their problems.

I could write off the pushy sex /no comment as incredibly insensitive to the thread (you know, the one where the OP was RAPED), and MAY have come out better in a different context, but your attitude to sex on this thread seems just bonkers. I can get behind the aim of pleasing one partner sometimes, but saying men deserve a shag whether you're ill or tired or not does not sound remotely healthy.

Well up till page 6 I was really enjoying this thread, then along came books and it all turned a bit shit.

So back as we were, thanks ladies, this thread has really made me laugh. I've never had successful shower sex but think I may have to give it another try....we don't live in Wolverhampton so I'm safe!! 😂😂😂

You’re all doing it wrong! Always get him to take you from behind, you push against the shower wall so you can grind against him, use one of his or your hands to play with yourself.

Just make sure the shower head is not aimed anywhere that the water drips over your faces of course! It’s quite nice aimed on your back, in my opinion...

I see your Wolverhampton and I raise you Bognor Regis! Never got the hang of showers or baths, but gave it a good go in the pool on our honeymoon. Nothing got stuck!

Dry after the shower and head for the bed. More comfy, more fun and it’s what beds or for! Well, OK, you can sleep in them too.