@shitwithsugaron If you genuinely think he's over reacting then don't try to appease him or apologise - that will really set the bar for how he expects you to make amends for everything that you disagree about or situation which doesn't go exactly how he expected. He might have a think today and realise he's been a bit of a twat, or he'll give you the silent treatment and wait for you to make the right noises. I think if you've gone to an event together and you know no one else, then the onus is on him to keep you close at hand and make you feel included.
@Ant330 That's the kind of thing that would send my anxiety into orbit, but like everyone says keep talking to her. I think it's around this stage you both start seeing the "real" other person and take things to the next level. Accepting that the other person has flaws is all part of a healthy relationship but that doesn't mean putting up with shit or being unhappy. I hope you manage to move on from it and are the stronger for it. She does sound as smitten as you do, so fingers crossed she just needs a bit of time to reflect that you might have done one knobby thing, but you've done a hundred other things that are nothing like her ex.
@AverageGuy Don't think too much about Miss Small's situation - she obviously feels she's got enough free time to have a relationship with someone and hopefully she has a good support system in place.
@Marlboroandmalbec34 What a tosspot (Mr Tennis).
@Coffeeandchocolate9 Fingers crossed for tonight.
@Looupdate How are you doing? 
Had a horrible meeting with STBXH last night. He still loves me, doesn't want to get divorced, he's a changed man, he would never cheat on me again, he knows what he's got to lose 
. He basically spent an hour crying into his pint whilst I was telling him I was divorcing him whether he agreed to it or not. Then I had to drop DD off at his this morning, and he cried again (not in front of her thank God). Then he phoned me when I got to work begging again. I'm fucking drained with it all and I have to see him again tonight to pick up DD after work. Spoke to MrC who was so fucking lovely I just want to cry even more. On top of all that MrPlumber phoned me for an hour last night - told him about ex still loving me and MrC not loving me 
and I'm so grateful he's still in my life as a friend, he is absolutely solid in what he says and the advice he gives - he says to give MrC time, but don't let it go on indefinitely if I need to hear "I love you" but if he's doing the loving stuff and saying everything but that, then is it really a big issue? He's got a new lady friend and I'm pleased for him, he deserves someone amazing in his life. 