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Dating...but no sex?!

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jaffa678 · 19/06/2019 20:58

I’ve changed my name for this. So I’ve been dating a guy for approx 7 weeks and we’ve met up around 10 times. He’s lovely, very good looking , charming, seems very interested in me, we have some lovely conversations and There’s a massive spark between us when we’re together.

Ok, so because of previous relationship break downs I’m currently back at home with my parents and so is he. It’s a temporary situation for us both.

However, I feel really frustrated haha! After 10dates we’ve only kissed, nothing more! He doesn’t talk about it! Or ever mention it. It’s just we have a really great date and then kiss bye and that’s it!! I have not dtd now since December !! And it’s driving me insane haha! I’m quite a quiet person so I would never dream of bringing it up to him. He mentioned about us going away in august! But that’s forever! And even then he was like it would be great to spend some time together lots of cuddles! Haha I feel like I am the one with the testosterone here!! What’s going on??!!

OP posts:
StarlightIntheNight · 08/07/2019 16:41

maybe he has a low libido? some men don't have a high sex drive. my ex had a high drive and wanted to dtd like 10 times a week, where as another ex wanted to dtd once a month if that bc he had low libido.

Bluemascara4 · 09/07/2019 17:37

Did you have a nice weekend OP? WinkWink

jaffa678 · 09/07/2019 20:11

@Bluemascara4 @Crunchymum the night away is this weekend, looking forward to it ! Going to have a few drinks but not too many as don’t want to feel rough the next day as we’re spending day together after.
@StarlightIntheNight yeah he could have low libido, my ex had very high libido which got on my nerves haha, so hoping it’s not too high but not low at the same time!

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Sparkles57 · 09/07/2019 20:19

He sounds sweet but I’m not sure I’d find that level of “nervousness” (as I would read it) attractive. It’s nice to be respectful but I think I’d be worried he didn’t fancy me 🤦🏻‍♀️ Plus I like a confident man.

You’ll have to see how the night away goes! But I don’t think I would personally be up for trying to lay it on him and take the lead!

jaffa678 · 16/07/2019 10:14

Just a little update!! We went away had a few drinks and it happened!!!! 3 times, was amazing. Glad we waited a while now, I was getting worried it never would happen but it did :) big smile on my face! Like him even more now

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sarahfairy · 16/07/2019 10:24

@jaffa678 love this!!

SimonJT · 16/07/2019 10:52

@jaffa678 I’m really pleased for you, I’m also in team wait where sex is concerned.

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