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Would you be with someone who says being gay is unnatural?

282 replies

joliejoleen · 06/05/2019 17:54

This man that I've been seeing thinks that being gay is unnatural. He wouldn't go out in the street and protest against gay people or ever attack them. He just thinks that being gay is unnatural and doesn't want his children to grow up thinking being gay is okay because it isn't. Would you ltb?

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Usuallyinthemiddle · 06/05/2019 17:55

I couldn't stay with him.

Madratlady · 06/05/2019 17:55

Yes I’d ltb

DoctorDread · 06/05/2019 17:55

Nope

Thatnovembernight · 06/05/2019 17:55

No I wouldn’t

MightyAtlantic · 06/05/2019 17:56

It would have been goodbye from me the minute that came out of his mouth.

PositiveVibez · 06/05/2019 17:57

Would I shite be with him. I would think he was thick and ignorant. Why on earth would I want to date someone like that.

snoutandab0ut · 06/05/2019 17:57

Absolutely not. Vile. Immediate dump and block

Nacreous · 06/05/2019 17:57

No chance whatsoever that I'd stay.

Exactly the same as if he held that opinion about people of another race.

Willowkoko · 06/05/2019 17:57

Strong no. Who is he to judge how other people live their lives. Would definitely not want him influencing my DC. Sorry OP.

Thingsdogetbetter · 06/05/2019 17:58

And if you stay and have kids and one is gay.....what then?

SimonJT · 06/05/2019 17:58

Who would want to be with a scumbag?

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 06/05/2019 18:00

I couldn't be with someone with those views.

PaperHead · 06/05/2019 18:00

His bigoted position is the ‘unnatural’ one. And I don’t think he gets brownie points for being so enlightened as to not protest against gay rights or attack gay people.

CaptainMyCaptain · 06/05/2019 18:00

I wouldn't stay with him. I wouldn't want my children being brought up that way. What would happen if one of them was gay?

Melanie1811 · 06/05/2019 18:01

Nope I wouldn’t stay

AliasGrape · 06/05/2019 18:03

I couldn’t stay with someone with those views no.

BuildBuildings · 06/05/2019 18:03

Nope. Who knows what else he thinks too?
What if his views became more extrem and he would protest against gay people? What if you had kids together and he taught them this stuff? Stop seeing him.

WeBuiltCisCityOnSexistRoles · 06/05/2019 18:03

Do you really need to ask this question? That worries me, tbh.

EluphNaugeMeop · 06/05/2019 18:04

I most certainly couldn't have a baby with a man who would be homophobic to Hus own child if they turned out to be gay.

That's a stronger feeling than the sense that I couldn't date/be in a long term relationship with someone who was like that. I suspect I might agree to one date if he was hot but wouldn't let it be long term.

SleepingStandingUp · 06/05/2019 18:06

Well I wouldn't want him around my gay friends / relatives , and I wouldn't want to ever have children with him. I would be worried about having him around younger nieces and nephews etc.

I'd thank him for his honesty and move on

thankyourforthemusic · 06/05/2019 18:10

God no , because it's ignorant .
What else is he ignorant about and he must be as if he wasn't ignorant he wouldn't care about someone's sexuality why should it matter ?
It's 2019 and for someone to have these views is insane .
I'd also happily tell him the reason why .

EskeewdBeef · 06/05/2019 18:10

I'd dump him. Bigots aren't good company.

Merryoldgoat · 06/05/2019 18:11

Absolutely could not stay with someone like that.

Aussiebean · 06/05/2019 18:12

Nope. Why could you even think that would work in the long run if you don’t agree with him?

DonnaDarko · 06/05/2019 18:13

I couldn't stay with him, that would be an absolute deal breaker for me.

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