I do think there are men out there too looking for the same and relationships come in all forms, more and more.
Oh I’m sure they are. But I have only really talked about this with women. Relationships do come in different forms, but without simple blueprints to follow. And that always makes things trickier.
I mean, they always have been more complicated but there was a stronger public narrative about what they ‘should’ look like. In many ways that was worse obviously.
It’s still often more complex and ambiguous than we’d like to believe. If only life were simple. 😂
I’m 38 and have come to an odd realisation that I may not be entirely against me marrying someone in the last few months. I think I’d always thought of myself as ‘unmarriagable’ (in the best possible way 😝). But who knows.
Not that I’m planning on getting married or anything. No one should hold their breath looking for a wedding invitation here. More just that we (I, at least) don’t always know what we (I) might want and ideas change.
Hilariously, I think my mum would be horrified if I told her I was getting married. I think she’s still disappointed (8 years later) that my sister got married. 😂